Ive found as a mom I am very judgemental

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's been the opposite for me...I'm much less judgmental now that I'm a parent myself and know how hard it is.

Me too.

And when I do find myself being judgmental, if I look closely, it's because somehow I feel less than adequate in that same area somehow so I'm trying to make myself feel better by inwardly dogging someone else.

Bingo! This is also why I don't take others' criticisms personally.

[Anonymous]

This topic reminds me of this cartoon on the same subject:
http://www.xtranormal.com/watch/7148143/?ref=nf

[Anonymous]

This entire website wouldn't exist if it weren't for parents like you.

[Anonymous]

As long as we're being judgmental, OP, it's judgmental, not judgemental.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As long as we're being judgmental, OP, it's judgmental, not judgemental.

Actually, while I prefer your spelling, they are both acceptable.

OP, is it parenting choices about which you have become more judgmental? And if so, are you a perfect parent? I certainly am not....

[Anonymous]

I can't stand parents who keep themselves first in all things, ahead of their children, in each and every instance. Drives me crazy.