| Good judgement |
| Boundaries and assertiveness |
| Emotional intelligence |
*1. Humility is rare these days. |
| Don’t just find problems - that’s easy; offer solutions. |
| Getting along with all your colleagues is primary (so don't be an a$$hole), the rest can be learned |
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Depends on a job. Work ethic when you have mostly a physical job.
I'm cleaning, picking up trash, or putting something away already as I walk into work. My jobs have not paid well, but being the person I am at work and outside paid well. |
| Responsiveness. Productivity. Initiative. Interpersonal skills. Well-regulated emotions. "Fit", i.e., workplace appropriate behavior, dress, speech. |
Humility is a total handicap in the workforce. Example: two coworkers each get saddled with an extra project. Coworker 1 skips lunch and stays late to get it finished. Doesn't mention it to anyone but anyone can see it was done and done well. Coworker 2 sends out a staff wide email ccing higher ups "Just a heads up that I have completed project X! (Nonsense about how much time this took, patting herself on the back) please ask me if you have any questions at all! Go team!" Coworker 2 will always be in mind for promotion and considered a go getter. Coworker 1 will be on no one's radar though they appreciate her very much. |
You are dumb for falling for this. |
| Clear communication. I cannot believe how bad so many people are at this |
| Positive attitude/team player, and I'm kind of a workhorse so stuff always gets done. |
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- Manage expectations.
- Do not give your best. - Observe what kind of work culture is in your office and function according to that. No need to be the smartest and kindest person in a company filled with cruel and stupid people. - If you work for a fool, CYA. - Don't let people know that you are smarter than them. - Be social, polite and cheerful. But, don't share anything of value. - Don't let other take credit for your work. - Cover for your boss at least one time. - Learn new skills quickly and move to a new job. - Learn to market yourself and negotiate a good salary. |
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Sometimes I wonder how the heck I've survived so many jobs. I think one reason is that I happen to be intrinsically motivated and genuinely care about doing a good job. You can't teach that. My projects are always well-executed and high quality. I go above and beyond the ask and make things better.
I also am curious and can absorb new skills/info better than most of my coworkers. For example, there will be 10 of us in a meeting where someone is describing a new technology or process, and yet, I'm the only one who will absorb the info and apply it moving forward. So I often become a subject matter expert, even though other people have access to the same exact information. |
| Showing up and showing up on time. |