Do women go strip clubs (w/ male strippers)?

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t have in my 20s/30s when I was trying to be a “proper” woman but now in my 40s I think it would be a lot of fun.

I think girls/young women are conditioned to not feel lust, told they’re not as sexual as men, shouldn’t care about men’s looks, etc. But it’s very liberating when you get older and become more in touch with your sexuality and what you actually like, vs what you’re told to like.

I’ve seen clips of shows where they bring a woman onstage and flip her over, it’s very sexy. Would love for a man to do that to me.

[Anonymous]

I used to work next to a bar that did chippendales male strippers weekly. On that night, the women would come in to my establishment for snacks and small bills etc, talking about the men and which one fancied them, etc. The women were similar- obese, white, single, over 30, mid level jobs.
The men would come in, too, for cigarettes, talking about how disgusting the women were,
how they were only going this until their next big dancing of acting part, how they hated doing it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Come on Op. there are only two types of strip clubs- gay guy strippers, women strippers.

Worse situations are in SE Asia and Ivory Coast but then you’re looking at child trafficking.

The male strippers I know were largely gay but danced for straight women

[Anonymous]

I went one time in college with a mixed gender group of progressive friends, as sort of a “that would be an entertaining new thing to try out”. Also, as I recall, one of my friends wrote for the campus paper and she was going to turn it into an article, so we all treated it as a bit of a field trip. It was super entertaining for the first couple songs, kind of like going to karaoke or a drag show or bowling. And then it gets a bit more boring, and you start to look around and realize that around 80 percent of the room is bachelorettes, looky loos, etc. But 20 percent are sad, lonely women who may be there alone, or with a small group, and these women are horny. Sad, grinding, lick lipping, glazed eyes. And my friends and I were like, okay this makes us feel icky and maybe it’s less entertaining than we thought. The dancers seemed fine, and I wasn’t worried about them. They seemed totally in control of the situation and being generally respected by the women in the audience.

[Anonymous]

Eeew no. Who wants to look at men’s junk? I’d rather appreciate a beautiful female stripper.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Years and years and years ago (mid-'90s) I went with a friend because she enjoyed this and convinced me to go and it was the most disgusting thing I have ever experienced. I don't want strange random oiled up men touching me, or swinging dingaling in my face. Nothankyouplease. Have never done it again.

Good for you 👍

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Eeew no. Who wants to look at men’s junk? I’d rather appreciate a beautiful female stripper.

I think I’d rather see something like a cabaret or artistic burlesque with attractive scantily clothed members of both sexes … I don’t really need to see anyone’s actual bits on stage.

[Anonymous]

I know someone who fits this description, and liked going to the Hangar Club off the Beltway, so it is a thing.

[Anonymous]

I went to the hanger club in the 90s or bachelorette party and it was terrible.

I’ve been just strip clubs with women a couple times in DC and New Orleans. Kind of just wanted to see what it was all about. I don’t really get it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think it's a sign of growing up in a household with a weak father, or none at all. If you, as a woman, are buying into the lie of female exploitation in the name of sex positivity, you didn't grow up with a strong man in your life.

Most homes today have No father or a passive, neglect father. So mainly weak ones around nowadays.

Oh come on.

[Anonymous]

I went to one many years ago for a friend's bachlorette party. It was a gay strip club and all of the male "dancers" were skinny little twinks. And they had to wear socks on their penises because it was (maybe still is?) to be completely nude. It was really depressing.

[Anonymous]

No, but i’ve been to a female one once with my bf at the time. It was fun, but not probably something I’d do again unless I was drunk and it seemed like a silly idea like the first time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Eeew no. Who wants to look at men’s junk? I’d rather appreciate a beautiful female stripper.

Are you straight and you don’t think the male form is beautiful? I think most women don’t want to watch the schlong slapping around, but male bodies are gorgeous. Especially because most of us don’t have partners who are as fit as these guys.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know someone who fits this description, and likedu going to the Hangar Club off the Beltway, so it is a thing.

lol, I was going to ask if I was the only one old enough to remember the Hanger Club and Chippendales.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Eeew no. Who wants to look at men’s junk? I’d rather appreciate a beautiful female stripper.

Are you straight and you don’t think the male form is beautiful? I think most women don’t want to watch the schlong slapping around, but male bodies are gorgeous. Especially because most of us don’t have partners who are as fit as these guys.

I am straight and I do appreciate a fit male body but don’t need to see anyone’s 🍆 flapping around. Nothing aesthetic about that.