How to support friend who discovered husband has been cheating for a decade?

[Anonymous]

Provide a listening ear. Zero opinions
She’s going to stay w him anyways.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Tell her he probably wasn’t physically cheating at all if he was using an assumed name. It was most likely just a series of online affairs. I’d tell her don’t blow up the family over it before she knows what she’s dealing with. If they didn’t know his real name, he wasnt serious.

Ewww. It wouldn’t matter to me if there was physical cheating or not. Online affairs are grounds for divorce as well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Mainly under assumed names on various hookup sites. Was alerted by an anonymous email. All documented.
Has three young kids.

In a nutshell, she is dumb and he is the sleaze ball she picked, went exclusive with, got engaged to, got married to, had one kid with, had another kid with and then again had third kid with

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just be there when she needs to vent or cry to you.

Also, maybe offer to watch her kids so she can have some time for herself to perhaps get her nails or hair done or buy some new clothes.

You sound like a great friend! ♥️

And be supportive of whatever emotions she has. She may be angry and hate him and then next she will be sad and loving him. Just listen and don't judge.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Mainly under assumed names on various hookup sites. Was alerted by an anonymous email. All documented.
Has three young kids.

In a nutshell, she is dumb and he is the sleaze ball she picked, went exclusive with, got engaged to, got married to, had one kid with, had another kid with and then again had third kid with

She doesn’t have to be dumb, but she has been lied to and manipulated by her scumbag husband for a decade. Cheaters are abusers, she will see everything differently now and will need a lot of support to get through this and respects herself in the process.