Do holiday traditions just evolve or can you make them?

[Anonymous]

I think you should try something new and if you like it, ou could decide to do it again.

I grew up with a parent who manufactured traditions out of every little thing and it was stifling. Like, we had to travel with a music box if the trip occurred over a birthday, because we "always" have that music box out for birthdays. Probably some kind of anxiety. Anyway, don't become tied to things you don't enjoy just because they happened twice in a row.