What would you change about your sex life?

[Anonymous]

64 & 65

Together 44 years
Married 40

Our sex life has never been an issue. I realize we are very lucky.

[Anonymous]

I'd like more orgasms that aren't self-driven. BF is great at PIV sex, but lazy about everything else. It'll be a factor in our eventual breakup.

[Anonymous]

I’d like to peg DH

[Anonymous]

I would not have gotten cancer and stopped HRT

[Anonymous]

I would make myself less stressed and busy so I could be more interested in sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you could change anything.

actually have it

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:More frequently and for my husband to initiate.

And I would add I wish my husband would be more into it. For him, it is a purely physical act. He doesn’t really understand foreplay or why anyone would enjoy kissing or just touching.

[Anonymous]

I don’t have a sex life unless porno and self help counts. DW has no interests in it or in talking about it. Roommates only and in separate rooms due to kids in ES.

[Anonymous]

I wish my wife was more into it. For her, it’s usually to check the box.

[Anonymous]

I'd like to be a little thinner. Does that count? And I'd like to orgasm more easily - changing hormones and it isn't as easy any more. I'd like my spouse to be a good deal thinner, as well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Less frequent. Like 1 time per month. Married DW here.

And come back here and complain when your husband cheats

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don’t have a sex life unless porno and self help counts. DW has no interests in it or in talking about it. Roommates only and in separate rooms due to kids in ES.

Marry someone else without telling your wife. Get a part time wife

[Anonymous]

Still waiting for this response:

I'd get a partner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don’t have a sex life unless porno and self help counts. DW has no interests in it or in talking about it. Roommates only and in separate rooms due to kids in ES.

how old are you guys? This is not good but will improve once kids come out of ES.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'd like more orgasms that aren't self-driven. BF is great at PIV sex, but lazy about everything else. It'll be a factor in our eventual breakup.

How old are you? Did you ever tell him about it otherwise childish that you would already make up your mind about the break-up.