How to feel about my Fiance

[Anonymous]

You have a fiancé problem - End this relationship.
You can’t make those people like you.
Stop paying for their meals as a result .

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You all sound way too immature to be getting married. He needs to stand up for you and you need to stop being a doormat. Why on earth would you buy dinner on your birthday for some guy who is a major jerk to you? Break up and grow up for 5 more years before even thinking about getting married. Neither of you are ready.

What if she is already 41?

[Anonymous]

This doesn't sound like an emotionally suitable relationship for you. If you really want him then guys better move to another town so you can avoid this drama.

[Anonymous]

You should dump him. You won't, but that's what you SHOULD do.

[Anonymous]

Wait what? Why are you taking them put for YOUR birthday instead of them taking YOU out?

This whole family dynamic that you've described I don't like and I think it will become an even larger problem as your relationship progresses.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You all sound way too immature to be getting married. He needs to stand up for you and you need to stop being a doormat. Why on earth would you buy dinner on your birthday for some guy who is a major jerk to you? Break up and grow up for 5 more years before even thinking about getting married. Neither of you are ready.

You do sound immature.