Older couples with strong sex lives

[Anonymous]

Our secret is porn. Porn has helped us be more open about sex. We watch it together and even record our own videos.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1. Be in good shape
2. Lube
3. Lube again
4. Make sure you take care of your partner.
5. Lube
6. Did I say stay in shape?
7. Plan in advance and make it a regular thing.
8. Maybe your body hair has needs to be trimmed on occasion?
9. You still like each other
10. There are times when the kids are gone.

Guy here. Good to knowm. Around what age women start getting drier than usual? Stupid me always though women are wet whenever aroused the way we have erections whenever aroused.

[Anonymous]

I'm not a doctor and I am not going to play one online. But if were to guess I'll venture and say there is a strong correlation between your overall health and fitness level and your sex frequency as you age. In other words if both are healthy and in shape inform what stops them from having a strong sex life as they age.

For this reason I prioritize working out before everything. 4 times a week I show up at the gym at 4:30 for a 45 mins session of heavy lifting. And DW walks around the neighborhood while I am at the gym. I have being doing this regimen for 30 years. I am 65 and DW 57. And despite having been born with chronic GI inflammation for which i take drugs, I have been I am in very good shape with strong stamina and clear mind. The end result: our sex life is fantastic.

We love each other though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm not a doctor and I am not going to play one online. But if were to guess I'll venture and say there is a strong correlation between your overall health and fitness level and your sex frequency as you age. In other words if both are healthy and in shape inform what stops them from having a strong sex life as they age.

For this reason I prioritize working out before everything. 4 times a week I show up at the gym at 4:30 for a 45 mins session of heavy lifting. And DW walks around the neighborhood while I am at the gym. I have being doing this regimen for 30 years. I am 65 and DW 57. And despite having been born with chronic GI inflammation for which i take drugs, I have been I am in very good shape with strong stamina and clear mind. The end result: our sex life is fantastic.

We love each other though.

As a 32 years old out of shape guy it's encouraging to see much older men who are in great shape. I need to get my ass to the gym.

[Anonymous]

It starts with having a great sex life while you're young. Then you do a lot of this other stuff to minimize the deterioration.

[Anonymous]

Nah. It's not about being a gym rat and maintaining a trim figure. Your willingness to work out is a proxy for your willingness to actively take control of your overall health and body functions. Someone who does that will take action when they notice that their body and mind are off kilter, whether or not they still fit into their wedding dress. If you are generally in good health, there's no reason that you won't have a decent libido well into your late 60s/early 70s. But that will require you talking with your docs about HRT, Viagra, or whatever else might benefit you.

[Anonymous]

We are in our early and mid 60s and until we both got Covid recently we had a very active sex life. We are both healthy and fit and we have a lot of energy. Sex has always been high on our priority list even when our kids were young and life was very busy. Covid has given us both an off feeling that affects us in a low energy way. I hope this off feeling goes away!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We are in our early and mid 60s and until we both got Covid recently we had a very active sex life. We are both healthy and fit and we have a lot of energy. Sex has always been high on our priority list even when our kids were young and life was very busy. Covid has given us both an off feeling that affects us in a low energy way. I hope this off feeling goes away!

Blame Gates...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1. Be in good shape
2. Lube
3. Lube again
4. Make sure you take care of your partner.
5. Lube
6. Did I say stay in shape?
7. Plan in advance and make it a regular thing.
8. Maybe your body hair has needs to be trimmed on occasion?
9. You still like each other
10. There are times when the kids are gone.

For me , no 9 is number one. And why I only have obligatory sex with my spouse about once a month. Contemplating divorce, not due to the lack of sex, but lack of respect and mutual dislike.