Parent inviting me in while on the toilet

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is a form of sexual abuse, called covert incest. Parents being sexually inappropriate with their children. Not straight up molesting, but other behaviors:

Examples of covert incest could be the parent sharing intimate, graphic details of their own sex life to the child, practicing voyeurism, exhibitionism, inappropriate sharing of pornographic images, and similar behaviors that, while still being sexual abuse, are described as covert for their intangible nature. Covert incest is often difficult to detect.

It's really sad to see people dismiss this as NBD, and I'm sorry for that OP. Many children don't realize how f***ed up these behaviors are until they meet someone...normal.

Yes! Pp from above. My mother also tried to vent her sexual frustrations onto me. Luckily I managed to stop her but I still would hear much more than I cared to. I am a daughter fwiw

[Anonymous]

OP thanks for posting this. My mother was quite similar. My dad was emotionally incestious with me as I now realize. They were both so frustrated I think.

[Anonymous]

OP,

This isn’t abuse, but you would benefit from therapy.

[Anonymous]

This is a form of sexual abuse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is a form of sexual abuse, called covert incest. Parents being sexually inappropriate with their children. Not straight up molesting, but other behaviors:

Examples of covert incest could be the parent sharing intimate, graphic details of their own sex life to the child, practicing voyeurism, exhibitionism, inappropriate sharing of pornographic images, and similar behaviors that, while still being sexual abuse, are described as covert for their intangible nature. Covert incest is often difficult to detect.

It's really sad to see people dismiss this as NBD, and I'm sorry for that OP. Many children don't realize how f***ed up these behaviors are until they meet someone...normal.

Thank you. I’d never heard of this.

Seems like a lot of PP have experienced it and think it is normal.


OP

[Anonymous]

I would say sharing any details of sex life with kids is inappropriate! Not just graphic.
And no moms we don’t want to see your boobs let alone you sitting on the toilet. Gross!