| Sleep, exercise, and a racy movie/book. |
| Having sex generally increases the desire for more sex. |
not if it's not great sex |
| eat a lot of celery, celery=testosterone & androsterone=libido and sex drive. |
| A boyfriend usually does the trick. |
| Bath plus hot story (usually some embarrassing fanfic). |
What do you fantasize about ? UPS driver ? |
| NP- I always fantasize with dh. It's the only.way I can get off. And yes we have a bad marriage but the fantasizing allows me to still sleep with him. Fantasies include the guy in college that always hit the g spot, the guy in high school i lusted after, etc |
Erotic books I've read. |
| Wife losing weight |
How much does she need to loose? |
| Watching porn made specifically for women really gets me aroused, the visual of the sex act itself is what does it, I'm not into the people or the story if there is one. Specific male types and seeing them having sex in the same way I like is very erotic to me. |
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If you are a man around 45, weight lifting in particular lower leg exercises deadlift and squat and mindfulness have done wonders for me.
I was never horny, couldn't relax during sex, ejaculated quickly, couldn't keep an erection. I was a mess and it affected my mental health a lot. We went on a 6 months hiatus while I worked out and meditated a lot. We now have sex a lot. I'm always horny. Everytime I see my wife I am horny. I hope it last |
Being super fresh and clean always works well. |
The quality of the writing is mostly soooo poor it's a huge turn-off. |