| Has anything worked well for you / partner? |
| I’m not into porn. Female here. But I could make myself fantasize about sex. That would make me horny. It helped. 🤷♀️ |
Are you saying p*rn was naturally helpful? |
| Try well written romance that is high on the spice meter. I can give you author names if you want. I'm in menopause and the romance novels work better than the other treatments I've tried. I'm on estrogen and progesterone and I tried testosterone, which is supposed to really help and it did nothing for me. It does help others. |
| Sexy stories! I don’t need anything well written honestly. |
| The book club usually has some threads on this. Someone should bump them. |
| Literotica.com |
This would be better if you would tell us your age, sex, a bit about your lifestyle, and what you and your partner have tried. |
| Get a new partner. |
| Weight lifting no alcohol getting slimmer |
| Getting in shape tremendously helped for both of us. |
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Weight-bearing exercise, even for 15 minutes a day, it could be elastic bands, little dumbbells, squats at the kitchen table, anything that makes your muscles feel even the slightest burn is enough for me to improve my mood which then leaves room for sexy thoughts.
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| Less stress, and erotica. I also fantasize while with DH. I have never ever cheated on him. No desire to breakup our marriage, but I need to fantasize to get off. |
What about short erotic stories? Have you checked out the amateur written-word erotic on the free site, Literotica.com ? The written stories are loosely organized by, um, topic? (you’ll see). Some aren’t bad at all. |
| I take a hot bath, pleasure myself, put on nice nightgown, invite my husband to bed and then really get it on. The prelims really help me release all inhibitions. |