How did you meet your AP?

[Anonymous]

Friends from college, neighbor, child's private school, child's fencing team, book club, run club.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Friends from college, neighbor, child's private school, child's fencing team, book club, run club.

Are all of these current APs?

[Anonymous]

I don't think anyone understood the topic here. Meet her at kids activities

[Anonymous]

On this website when they had the old explicit forum.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:His was the next door neighbor. Both couples are divorced now.

Are the APs together now?

Nope. That fizzled out of course.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't think anyone understood the topic here. Meet her at kids activities

Guess we know the type of POS you are, don’t just f up your lives, but make your kids feel like if they didn’t join that team then their parents would still be together. Love the generational guilt, sins of the father vibe.

[Anonymous]

Most meet online

[Anonymous]

My STBXWW met hers at the gym, bars and son’s travel team- attractive broken women are everywhere you are, just start talking and mention your parents divorced young due to your dad cheating on your mom. Tell her he lies all the time and you can’t stand him. If she has a similar story, you found a possible AP. Good luck ruining your family!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My STBXWW met hers at the gym, bars and son’s travel team- attractive broken women are everywhere you are, just start talking and mention your parents divorced young due to your dad cheating on your mom. Tell her he lies all the time and you can’t stand him. If she has a similar story, you found a possible AP. Good luck ruining your family!

Ha. Pretty accurate. Two losers. Daddy issues and dysfunctional homes. Cheating is endemic in many families going down the family line, same with alcoholism. If momma or daddy was a Ho, the kids follow suit eventually.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most meet online

Really? I would have said most meet at work.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most meet online

Really? I would have said most meet at work.

It’s 2025

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ex H met his at a conference hotel bar on a business trip (the bartender). It lasted 3 years and ended in divorce, kids hating him, loss of most his friends, his family disappointed, loss of his job, and an alcohol problem.

He is a loser. How can he let an affair ruined his life like that? Okay he lost his wife not the end of the world. But becoming an alcoholic and losing his job? Sorry your ex had bigger mental health issues.

Rule#1: keep a job (preferably a high paying job)
Rule#2: Don't let losing an ex affect your personal life. They are not the only people in the world.

People with healthy bonds to other people indeed feel like losing their spouse is a very big deal. You build a life with that person and trust them more than anyone.

For men it's tougher because first they relied on their mother and then later on their wife. So when the wife is gone it's a big deal.

Not if the man is capable of relying on himself.

[Anonymous]

#1 secretary at work-15 years
#2 Restaurant Bar 2 years (overlap w/#1)
#3 Restaurant Bar 7 Mos. (overlap W/#1)
#4 same office Bldg 6 Mos
#5 work colleague (overlap w/ 1 & 4)

stopped & happily married now

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:#1 secretary at work-15 years
#2 Restaurant Bar 2 years (overlap w/#1)
#3 Restaurant Bar 7 Mos. (overlap W/#1)
#4 same office Bldg 6 Mos
#5 work colleague (overlap w/ 1 & 4)

stopped & happily married now

So, erectile dysfunction?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most meet online

Really? I would have said most meet at work.

It’s 2025

So? Many people still go to work. I would consider a relationship with some of the men at work that grew organically in a way that I would never go out of my way to reach out to men online if I were still married. Sound repulsive to go online to find an AP.