How did you meet your AP?

[Anonymous]

How long did it last and how did it end?

[Anonymous]

In a brothel

[Anonymous]

Ex H met his at a conference hotel bar on a business trip (the bartender). It lasted 3 years and ended in divorce, kids hating him, loss of most his friends, his family disappointed, loss of his job, and an alcohol problem.

[Anonymous]

His was the next door neighbor. Both couples are divorced now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ex H met his at a conference hotel bar on a business trip (the bartender). It lasted 3 years and ended in divorce, kids hating him, loss of most his friends, his family disappointed, loss of his job, and an alcohol problem.

He is a loser. How can he let an affair ruined his life like that? Okay he lost his wife not the end of the world. But becoming an alcoholic and losing his job? Sorry your ex had bigger mental health issues.

Rule#1: keep a job (preferably a high paying job)
Rule#2: Don't let losing an ex affect your personal life. They are not the only people in the world.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ex H met his at a conference hotel bar on a business trip (the bartender). It lasted 3 years and ended in divorce, kids hating him, loss of most his friends, his family disappointed, loss of his job, and an alcohol problem.

He is a loser. How can he let an affair ruined his life like that? Okay he lost his wife not the end of the world. But becoming an alcoholic and losing his job? Sorry your ex had bigger mental health issues.

Rule#1: keep a job (preferably a high paying job)
Rule#2: Don't let losing an ex affect your personal life. They are not the only people in the world.

People with healthy bonds to other people indeed feel like losing their spouse is a very big deal. You build a life with that person and trust them more than anyone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:His was the next door neighbor. Both couples are divorced now.

Same

[Anonymous]

Work, little bit over a yr and still going.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Work, little bit over a yr and still going.

Eww.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ex H met his at a conference hotel bar on a business trip (the bartender). It lasted 3 years and ended in divorce, kids hating him, loss of most his friends, his family disappointed, loss of his job, and an alcohol problem.

Vacation wife?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:His was the next door neighbor. Both couples are divorced now.

Are the APs together now?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ex H met his at a conference hotel bar on a business trip (the bartender). It lasted 3 years and ended in divorce, kids hating him, loss of most his friends, his family disappointed, loss of his job, and an alcohol problem.

He is a loser. How can he let an affair ruined his life like that? Okay he lost his wife not the end of the world. But becoming an alcoholic and losing his job? Sorry your ex had bigger mental health issues.

Rule#1: keep a job (preferably a high paying job)
Rule#2: Don't let losing an ex affect your personal life. They are not the only people in the world.

People with healthy bonds to other people indeed feel like losing their spouse is a very big deal. You build a life with that person and trust them more than anyone.

For men it's tougher because first they relied on their mother and then later on their wife. So when the wife is gone it's a big deal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ex H met his at a conference hotel bar on a business trip (the bartender). It lasted 3 years and ended in divorce, kids hating him, loss of most his friends, his family disappointed, loss of his job, and an alcohol problem.

He is a loser. How can he let an affair ruined his life like that? Okay he lost his wife not the end of the world. But becoming an alcoholic and losing his job? Sorry your ex had bigger mental health issues.

Rule#1: keep a job (preferably a high paying job)
Rule#2: Don't let losing an ex affect your personal life. They are not the only people in the world.

People with healthy bonds to other people indeed feel like losing their spouse is a very big deal. You build a life with that person and trust them more than anyone.

For men it's tougher because first they relied on their mother and then later on their wife. So when the wife is gone it's a big deal.

Not really. They just jump into the next available vagina.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ex H met his at a conference hotel bar on a business trip (the bartender). It lasted 3 years and ended in divorce, kids hating him, loss of most his friends, his family disappointed, loss of his job, and an alcohol problem.

He is a loser. How can he let an affair ruined his life like that? Okay he lost his wife not the end of the world. But becoming an alcoholic and losing his job? Sorry your ex had bigger mental health issues.

Rule#1: keep a job (preferably a high paying job)
Rule#2: Don't let losing an ex affect your personal life. They are not the only people in the world.

People with healthy bonds to other people indeed feel like losing their spouse is a very big deal. You build a life with that person and trust them more than anyone.

For men it's tougher because first they relied on their mother and then later on their wife. So when the wife is gone it's a big deal.

Not really. They just jump into the next available vagina.

And the supply is huge. The quality not so much

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ex H met his at a conference hotel bar on a business trip (the bartender). It lasted 3 years and ended in divorce, kids hating him, loss of most his friends, his family disappointed, loss of his job, and an alcohol problem.

He is a loser. How can he let an affair ruined his life like that? Okay he lost his wife not the end of the world. But becoming an alcoholic and losing his job? Sorry your ex had bigger mental health issues.

Rule#1: keep a job (preferably a high paying job)
Rule#2: Don't let losing an ex affect your personal life. They are not the only people in the world.

People with healthy bonds to other people indeed feel like losing their spouse is a very big deal. You build a life with that person and trust them more than anyone.

For men it's tougher because first they relied on their mother and then later on their wife. So when the wife is gone it's a big deal.

Weak men, yes. Stronger man would not have an affair.