Does your DH frequently compliment your looks?

[Anonymous]

Yes but I also ask him if I look nice. I’m shameless!

Although I will say that I lost 11lbs this summer and he didn’t notice. No one has noticed so far.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women really like the words being said that much? Huh. I always leaned heavily into being demonstrative and walking around with my erection out like a water diviner.

We do and your hard-on is about you, not her.

[Anonymous]

My dad always complimented his girls when we dressed up. DH does it too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No but he lets me know which celebrities/models he finds hot. He will always be pining for a 10 and sad that he only has a 5.

I dated a guy like that when I was 24-26….and I was easily an 8. Always upset he didn’t have a 10.

Now he’s 54 years old with nobody, in fact I think he had zero relationships after me and that was 15 years ago.

Why stay with him? Or at least why not take a lover on the side?

[Anonymous]

NEVER. If i ask he’ll say I look nice and I should know that. Never unprompted.

[Anonymous]

Yes. Sometimes I start to wonder how sincere he could be. But it seems like he genuinely still thinks I'm the most beautiful woman he's met IRL.

[Anonymous]

We compliment each other

[Anonymous]

To the point it is truly an annoyance, like it’s his nervous tic.

[Anonymous]

My exH never did in over a decade. The most he’d say was “cute”. I actually believe he was withholding on that, as if he complimented me it might give me self esteem and he wanted me to feel bad about myself.

Current partner says it, means it, and wow it sure makes a difference. Our sex life is way better as a result as well.

[Anonymous]

It is Exhausting to complement my fat wife.
Whenever I do compliment her and say she looks nice, beautiful etc: she actually believes it and thinks she is in fact beautiful.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is Exhausting to complement my fat wife.
Whenever I do compliment her and say she looks nice, beautiful etc: she actually believes it and thinks she is in fact beautiful.

Get a divorce. Your wife deserves peace instead of a man who obviously despises her.

[Anonymous]

I compliment her all the time about how smart she is, not how she looks. The way she looks isn’t why I married her. Focusing on looks is pretty superficial. Her worth and self-esteem isn’t based on her appearance.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It is Exhausting to complement my fat wife.
Whenever I do compliment her and say she looks nice, beautiful etc: she actually believes it and thinks she is in fact beautiful.

Get a divorce. Your wife deserves peace instead of a man who obviously despises her.

Its not something i m going to divorce over. It is not uncommon for people to dislike certain things in their spouses. I believe in improving the situation and removing the defects than simply giving up. So far i have been very polite in asking her to exercise, eating healthy etc: if i don’t see a significant improvement soon, i will be very blunt will tell her in no uncertain terms to lose weight. I will still be polite but at the same time will be firm.

[Anonymous]

Yes, he is very appreciative of the effort I put into my looks. He notices, the little things that I don't expect him to notice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is Exhausting to complement my fat wife.
Whenever I do compliment her and say she looks nice, beautiful etc: she actually believes it and thinks she is in fact beautiful.

Yes, you are definitely a married man and not a forever-alone troll