| Your kids will come first. You'll have to find a way to increase your income, but then she could go after that too |
| Are your kids in daycare? Or of they require any kind of aftercare? |
| If there are guidelines, not likely there is much you can do. But seriously, $20k support per year for your kids isn’t a lot. A judge isn’t going to have sympathy. Your first duty is to support your kids. Do you need a car? Can you get cheaper rent? |
| Adjust your expenses. A judge is going to go by the calculator. Your expenses are determined by you, fix it. |
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https://www.nyc.gov/site/hra/help/child-support-calculator.page
NYC child support calculator. 2 kids equal 25% of your gross income or $2025 per month/24,300 annually. You’re paying 84% of that amount $1700 month/20,400 annually. Technically you have the kids 40% of the month but the overall support agreement is usually based on the needs of the children. |
Newsflash: your kids' bills ARE your own |
| NY is insane. Sorry OP. Move to a cheaper apartment. |
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Sorry, Divorce sucks, for everyone.
You get half the assets and twice the expenses. It’s always cheaper to have a shared household instead of 2 |
Some city taxes are taken out of the gross income. Not federal or state though. It’s more complicated than just a straight calculation. |
Cut your expenses. You owe what you owe for your kids. Don’t be schmuck |
He has a car payment, but didn't list parking so I'm guessing he does not live in NYC. |
| Father of the Year here. Jeez dude, take care of your children. |
| $1700 is a deal. You need to lower your other bills. What’s your car payment? What’s your rent/mortgage? Lay out your other bills and I’ll explain what you should cut before you cut the money your children need to live. |
| $1,700 is less than $200/week per kid. What do you think raising a child costs? |
| I think you should change jobs to something that allows for 50/50. |