Pp again. This is exactly what happened. DS was WL in April, opted to stay on the WL and wrote a LOCI, though didn’t express that Duke was his top choice. In early June he was notified that the WL was closed and the class was full. 6pm last night he received a text and email from Duke, and I got an email as well. We were stunned to say the least. |
It’s not that surprising, this is a weird year and weird times. |
Is he going to reply with continued interest or stay where he is? |
If you want it, go for it.
I had an MBA classmate who turned all her plans around with a month's notice. Including an adult residence move, leasing commitments, etc. After school starts, whatever happened in the summer is NBD. |
Fascinating. Duke starts early - my friend is dropping his kid off around August 16 as they have a semi-mandatory pre-term orientation. Room assignments are already out. So not a lot of time to pivot. |
Mine got off waitlist last year first part of May. I realize that’s much different than this week, but it’s the next 4 years and the connections beyond. If it’s the best fit for a kid, don’t be afraid to switch. Once there the crazy timing will be a distant memory. |
Very different. |
Agree to disagree, once started it doesn’t matter anymore. It was still a mind bender when mentally committed elsewhere regardless of when that happens. |
Take the spot and go to Duke, unless you are happier with a different school of similar prestige |
The big difference between a month ago and now for getting off the waitlist is that a month ago, people had paid a deposit ($500ish maybe) that they would lose. But now many people have paid the first semester tuition, room and board which is substantially more to lose. |
That’s fair, wasn’t thinking about tuition and how that plays out. Was only thinking about possible flights on the financial side. |
Also, may have formed friendships with future classmates and committed to a roommate relationship. |
Sure, unfortunate for roommate but wouldn’t let that overshadow possible life trajectory. |
Would love to read which school posters are giving up in order to attend Duke. |
Same here. It’s moving. This is insane. |