Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:1. you can gently demur the gift for your kids.
2. If they give one anyway accept graciously and your kids can send a thank yo note.
3. Let your boyfriend worry about paying- he know the dynamic with his parents best.
4. You don't need to bring a gift for his parents. The one exception to this for me is if they are meeting in your hometown and there's something unique about it. My DH is from Australia. He moved to the States for me. Whe. his parents came to visit, I gave them a little something representative of my state.
Relac and good luck!
OP, I wouldn’t do #1. Your boyfriend told you his parents already bought the gifts for your kids so just accept them graciously and tell them it was very thoughtful of them.