Help me to not fall asleep on datenight

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are on DCUM during a date night? This is you, not him.

This. Maybe take some responsibility for why you're in this place in your marriage and try to fix it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:IMO, the secret to a good date night at this stage of life is afternoon sex *before* you go out. Puts everyone in a good frame of mind and takes the pressure off, you don’t have to wonder whether your partner will want you to put out after the second espresso martini or whatever. I know it used to be more fun in the reverse order, but who has energy when you’ve got kids? Get the sex out of the way and all you are left with is enjoying each others company out on the town. Sometimes, it happens. Lol

Pro tip.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:IMO, the secret to a good date night at this stage of life is afternoon sex *before* you go out. Puts everyone in a good frame of mind and takes the pressure off, you don’t have to wonder whether your partner will want you to put out after the second espresso martini or whatever. I know it used to be more fun in the reverse order, but who has energy when you’ve got kids? Get the sex out of the way and all you are left with is enjoying each others company out on the town. Sometimes, it happens. Lol

Pro tip.

I don’t know if I would have felt the same way when the kids were small, but at 50+ with HSers, I totally agree!