Help me to not fall asleep on datenight
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Anonymous
| DH and I have our kiddos away with the grandparents and we’re out on the town. I am about to fall asleep. We started off arguing and now I’m just bored. Help. |
Anonymous
| Probably should just go home since the night was ruined by arguing. |
Anonymous
| Espresso martini |
Anonymous
| Anything with caffeine, order 2 |
Anonymous
| You sound like a fun date. Quite the incentive to have another. |
Anonymous
| Order a Red Bull and suggest a change of scenery. |
Anonymous
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You need a weekend away, not a night.
I've been in your shoes. It's easy to have things go sour when you're trying to make things feel normal while only having a compressed window of borrowed time. |
Anonymous
| I you suggest you both get naked and not talk. Turn out the lights and only use your mouths and lightly stroke each other. Learn how to reconnect. I love oral. I feel so many people just don't know how to please to a partner. |
Anonymous
Come over to OP’s house and show her how. |
Anonymous
Solid suggestion. |
Anonymous
| Time to get honest with yourself. You’re not interested in your significant other. |
Anonymous
This |
Anonymous
| You are on DCUM during a date night? This is you, not him. |
Anonymous
| IMO, the secret to a good date night at this stage of life is afternoon sex *before* you go out. Puts everyone in a good frame of mind and takes the pressure off, you don’t have to wonder whether your partner will want you to put out after the second espresso martini or whatever. I know it used to be more fun in the reverse order, but who has energy when you’ve got kids? Get the sex out of the way and all you are left with is enjoying each others company out on the town. Sometimes, it happens. Lol |
Anonymous
This. |