wearing the same prom dress

[Anonymous]

A new dress. It's a special occasion! That being said dresses are way too expensive. I'm looking now with dd and everything in store is $200+ unless you go to Windsor type stores and then they look really cheap.

[Anonymous]

I always went to JCP for prom dresses.

[Anonymous]

I’m shocked at everyone saying a teen girl should be taught it’s acceptable to buy a dress to wear only once. This is a terrible lesson on sustainability, on materialism, etc.

[Anonymous]

As a teen I wouldn't have wanted to go this in my own but if there was some social movement against materialism I totally would have reworn.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m shocked at everyone saying a teen girl should be taught it’s acceptable to buy a dress to wear only once. This is a terrible lesson on sustainability, on materialism, etc.

Prom is one of the very few times in one's life one might dress up, similar to one's wedding. I don't see how it's indicative of materialism at all on its own. My dd is not wasteful, prefers Goodwill and resale like many girls these days, but prom dresses are very tricky to find used because of fit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m shocked at everyone saying a teen girl should be taught it’s acceptable to buy a dress to wear only once. This is a terrible lesson on sustainability, on materialism, etc.

Prom is one of the very few times in one's life one might dress up, similar to one's wedding. I don't see how it's indicative of materialism at all on its own. My dd is not wasteful, prefers Goodwill and resale like many girls these days, but prom dresses are very tricky to find used because of fit.

A prom is not on the same level as a wedding, and most people dress up more than just at prom and their wedding. Buying anything to use only once is materialistic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m shocked at everyone saying a teen girl should be taught it’s acceptable to buy a dress to wear only once. This is a terrible lesson on sustainability, on materialism, etc.

Prom is one of the very few times in one's life one might dress up, similar to one's wedding. I don't see how it's indicative of materialism at all on its own. My dd is not wasteful, prefers Goodwill and resale like many girls these days, but prom dresses are very tricky to find used because of fit.

A prom is not on the same level as a wedding, and most people dress up more than just at prom and their wedding. Buying anything to use only once is materialistic.

So maybe this is about you and how you spend. I wore a $50 Talbot's dress for my wedding (which was low cost and non materialistic) and rewore it many times. I also wore a prom dress once and donated it to Goodwill. People are more complex than your judgmental ways can handle.

[Anonymous]

You ladies are so tacky. You don't need. Ande dress for every occasion.

[Anonymous]

Obviously new. Don't be a cheapskate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You ladies are so tacky. You don't need. Ande dress for every occasion.

Tacky doesn’t mean what you think it means.

[Anonymous]

new dress for her new prom, same dress if she is invited to another prom. and save them for college formals.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m shocked at everyone saying a teen girl should be taught it’s acceptable to buy a dress to wear only once. This is a terrible lesson on sustainability, on materialism, etc.

I re-wore my prom dress to a college formal. She can re-wear it, just not two proms in a row.

[Anonymous]

new dress. Doesn't have to be expensive. Got my daughter a beautiful dress, good quality fabric for $85 at Macy's.
Windsor may be cheaper but fabric is cheap quality as well, which is fine, they are glittery.

send the dresses to college with her.
Or to a younger sister/cousin/neighbor.

They will get used again.

[Anonymous]

Lulus or macys. Or resale shops.

But if she still loves the dress, or if you just got laid off, I think it’s fine to rewear. Her friends won’t care. I didn’t get a new dress for either prom and I lived.
I’m typically very against one time fashion but there’s a good resale and donation market for prom dresses.

[Anonymous]

Girls don’t wear these dresses twice. It is the same event.

If money is tight, yes. Otherwise, get a new dress.