It may not be in the order or his responsibility or like in our situation our insurance 100% covered medical bills and she refused to use it. What does the order say? |
Why didn’t you record him? Why were you screaming at him? |
What did I do to provoke recording? A lot of bad things and words I regret. Everything settled down and my ex and I see each other almost everyday. I don’t even need to forgive him as I am past that. We were both awful so it’s a tie.
The point is about defending yourself from audio or video recordings in VIRGINIA DIVORCE COURT You can admit and stipulate - before they are even played to avoid the humiliation and negative emotions on display in front of the judge. Mine were played at an “Emergency Hearing” so I never got to hear them until later. Transcript was huge - it fits an entire binder. Most of it is boring and the other stuff is not that interesting. 100 percent shrill female voice (that’s me). Maybe it’s a bit like extortion, you just have to own up tor the photos or acts or whatever bc it undercuts the opponent. I learned that later. It all worked out for me at the end. Have faith— and focus on your nice family people . This fighting is a blip |
And yes, I know that my weird dreams would probably go away once I stop seeing my former longtime spouse on a near daily basis.
I can’t do that quite yet. Our situation has a built in time limit - and it’s coming up soon. I’ll move on soon. I always feel compelled to chime in when people suggest recording in their homes bc it took a toll on me. |
You are so funny, with that intro! You sound like you are doing a great. I am improved greatly after breaking up and not focusing on my spouse. I am the lady who was recording (my spouse made me take a deposition where he quizzed me on the bus schedule and stuff like that). I have a lot to be upset about but I decided to thrive instead. I also decided to “see the good in him” as a way to parent our children together. So I renew that every day/ Hard as heck, but doable |
If you have kids marriage is the length of the relationship + 18 years. You basically need to find a way to reorder the relationship
Every one thinks their spouse is evil. Like 15 percent actually are |
He recorded you because of your behavior and treatment to him. You are not the victim. |
That is normal for court. |
Yes, read comprehension is a thing of the past. We definitely out gamed me! I mean, I “won” at the end; in court. And he got to humiliate me. Good for him. We have an ongoing father - daughter-style relationship. He is still him and I still me. Now we are more chill. We settled the finances, which took the pressure off. My ex know know keeps saying “you should find a rich husband.” LOL |
Well I found the entire custody dispute to be stupid. Why two people who are angry at each other after 20 years should depose each other is stupid. May be normal. But it’s silly to talk about grocery stores and school buses in a deposition. |
I am more relaxed now. Honestly, now I would find it flattering if he bothered to tape me. I would be naughty in different ways |
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Poster on 03/10/2025 17:31 -- What does it mean to stipulate to everything you said ahead of time in court? Can you explain that process? |
Why are you asking and what is your context please ? |
Everything is on Google especially w AI summaries now. Read this and ask your own questions in the search field. You may also ask specific questions (using your specific scenario) and see what happens
https://lawventure.com/cross-examination-techniques-for-courtroom/ I have no idea what this thread is about but i think this is in response to roommates or married folks who record each other in the home (Like J. Depp and his live-in partner). |