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Reply to "When ex-spouse is just evil but pretends they are a good person"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you in VA or DC? You might start recording all your phone calls just to have those records in case you need them in the future My ex is a narcissist so it doesn’t really matter if he is a good person, he just needs to feel like he is. So as long as he occasionally does things that he feels good about it, he’s able to justify the rest. Is it similar for you? [/quote] My ex spouse recorded me for four months. I live in Virginia. Then used the fights in divorce court. He was calm as he was recording. I am still lightly traumatized and have dreams about it five years later. If I had to do it again: Stipulate to everything you said ahead of time. So you don’t have to hear your voice (at its worst) in court. I am okay now! Dreams are less and less. [/quote] Why didn’t you record him? Why were you screaming at him?[/quote]
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