Nannie’s brother was arrested for statutory rape

[Anonymous]

"Nannie's"? Troll.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do your children ever go to her house? I'm not sure what the real concern is here.

Nope never.

They’ve never met the brother thank god. Kids are always at our house.

So why is it an issue? They aren't bailing him out and are horrified as well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Of several minors (between the age of 12-16) he met through Snapchat.

Nanny came in incredibly upset. He’s been arrested and the parents are not bailing him out. They’re all devastated.

My concern is my nanny lives at home with the parents and did live with the brother.

I am second guessing keeping her on with our family. If she had her own place I wouldn’t be as worried. But if brother does get out they could be in contact.

Pay your nanny enough to afford her own place. Poorly paid nannies are dependent on partners or family to make ends meets.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"Nannie's"? Troll.

Either that or OP just doxxed themselves - employer of a nanny whose brother was recently arrested, etc.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"Nannie's"? Troll.

It autocorrects if you put nanny’s often

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I understand the situation is upsetting, but I really don’t see a way that your children are affected, let alone are in any danger.

I can't figure that out, either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had a nanny who had an abusive x who would weirdly do drive-by stalker thing, including greeting me when I got home (from his car, parked on my street). I let her go nicely (paid out about 2months in cash). After she left him, I re-hired her as a babysitter and helped her find another full time job.

How do we know brother won't pick her up from work...early. Also, how do we know she wasn't his victim. There's an entire advocacy group about child victims of other children. (often girl on girl crimes).

I'm not trying to add fire to your flame but if your gut is telling you to protect your children "protect the gift".

Do you ask every teacher your child has if they’ve been molested? Every babysitter? The parents of their peers?

Or if they were in an abusive relationship?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I understand the situation is upsetting, but I really don’t see a way that your children are affected, let alone are in any danger.

Child predators flock together. What if a "friend" of the brother becomes friendly with the nanny, knowing that she has access to your children and parents are not at home.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I understand the situation is upsetting, but I really don’t see a way that your children are affected, let alone are in any danger.

Child predators flock together. What if a "friend" of the brother becomes friendly with the nanny, knowing that she has access to your children and parents are not at home.

You are insane. And no they don't.

[Anonymous]

Is the brother also a minor? And wouldn’t he be in jail?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had a nanny who had an abusive x who would weirdly do drive-by stalker thing, including greeting me when I got home (from his car, parked on my street). I let her go nicely (paid out about 2months in cash). After she left him, I re-hired her as a babysitter and helped her find another full time job.

How do we know brother won't pick her up from work...early. Also, how do we know she wasn't his victim. There's an entire advocacy group about child victims of other children. (often girl on girl crimes).

I'm not trying to add fire to your flame but if your gut is telling you to protect your children "protect the gift".

Wait.
So if nanny is a victim that’s more reason to fire her???

You are quoting me. We did everything for her. She’s now independent for the fist time in her life. It’s a very long story and she’s still in or lives. She’s been a part of our family for 12 years!

[Anonymous]

This incident has nothing to do with your nanny and I don’t see how it’d affect you.

[Anonymous]

My brother was a heroin addict at the time I nannied. I never would have allowed him near my charges and I certainly wasn’t using or providing it to the kids. Fortunately the parents had faith in my judgement.

What’s your actual fear here? Is statutory rape hereditary now?

[Anonymous]

I’d just say that it’s important to you that if her brother gets out, that she not allow contact between the kids and him or any of his friends. I’d also ask her to delete any photos she has of the kids, if that’s something that you allowed in the first place. If the parents bailed him out, my answer might be different. This family seems properly horrified. I feel bad for the nanny.

[Anonymous]

Hopefully your Nanny will find someone more reasonable to work for.