What age do you stop sending nephew/niece presents?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Still doing it at 21. Would feel rude to get something for their younger sib and not them.

This. For those of you who stop at 18, are there younger siblings you continue to give gifts to?

[Anonymous]

18

[Anonymous]

Stopping at graduation from graduate school (this Christmas)

[Anonymous]

One aunt (of my seven) still gets me a Christmas gift—I’m 38–but once I was out of college, I got one for her as well.

I will gift my nieces their whole lives because I only have two. My husband’s side has 5 and I’ll leave it to him when he stops gifting.

[Anonymous]

We stopped when they graduated college.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If your sister is sending your kids gifts, then I think you need to continue. If you stop at 18, I would stop for all of them. Weird to just send to two kids.

I’ve been wondering the same as OP. But also thing you need to stop for all kids whenever you decide. Weird to give to some kids but not others in the family. My nieces and nephews are younger than my kids so it feels weird for me to stop first.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, talk to your sibling and tell them you are not buying Christmas gifts.

My spouse is an only child, but I talked to my sister and said we aren't buying for your two kids and you don't have to buy for my two kids.

We did this when everyone was in middle school. Growing up, I got birthday gifts from my aunts and uncles probably through college, but Christmas gifts stopped around the same age too.

[Anonymous]

My siblings stopped at different times for my kids. The last is holding out to age 21, which feels long/unnecessary (but is nonetheless appreciated). My opinion is that anywhere from 13 to 18 is reasonable, depending on the relationship.

[Anonymous]

Never started so don’t have to quit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Still doing it at 21. Would feel rude to get something for their younger sib and not them.

This. For those of you who stop at 18, are there younger siblings you continue to give gifts to?

Yes, each kid has "aged out" in their own time in our family. They're all aware of it and understand.

[Anonymous]

I'm actually so pissed about this because I sent presents for my siblings' kids until they were in their 20s. This year, my sister declared that we are not giving gifts for kids anymore. My kids are in elementary school.

[Anonymous]

I stopped at 21.
We send his kids popup birthday cards.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm actually so pissed about this because I sent presents for my siblings' kids until they were in their 20s. This year, my sister declared that we are not giving gifts for kids anymore. My kids are in elementary school.

That is what happened in our family too. There is nothing you can really do except move on.

[Anonymous]

College graduation is the last gift we give.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm actually so pissed about this because I sent presents for my siblings' kids until they were in their 20s. This year, my sister declared that we are not giving gifts for kids anymore. My kids are in elementary school.

You need to call her out on this.