Adult son, unemployed

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Be thankful he has a wife.

Why do women have to take care of these guys?

I'm convinced special needs/stressed/ anxious men refuse to work more often than similar women.

[Anonymous]

No one is holding this deadbeat accountable. His wife can’t fight this battle by herself.
Back her up- or have a male relative talk to him. Men used to hold each other accountable

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How old is he, and what did he do? College educated?

My nephew has some SN that isn't obvious until you get to talk to him. He graduated college but had a really hard time finding FT employment, in part, IMO, because he does not interview well. He lives with his mom, my sister. She was also not happy about the situation, but she has also been in denial about his SN. I could tell he had some speech issues since he was 4 or 5. I also think he might be mildly autistic. He has a hard time making eye contact and blinks a lot.

I think he finally got a low paying job at around 28 or so fixing computers. That helped him get another better paying job working with computers.

He's now 32, still living with his mom, and trying to pay off his student loans. But, he's getting there.

GL

What were his SN?

[Anonymous]

Wait I’m confused if he is married how is this your problem?? If he is now with his wife this becomes more her problem (unfortunately for her!!) more than anything