Why do so many women have experiences with top tier men?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Let’s define “top tier” woman. This would be someone like Taylor Swift, Rachel Hilbert, etc.

“Top tier” women do not go out with average men. They just do not. They have so many choices with men and men approaching them constantly giving them gifts, trips, etc. If the man does not have status- famous, wealthy, power, etc, he will not be in the same circles as a “top tier” woman. He just will not break through her entourage/circle.

A “top tier” man will go out with any woman he is physically attracted to regardless of her status.

Is that a woman's definition or a man's?

A famous woman is not necessarily a desirable woman to men.

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The top tier men are going through a new woman every week or two, so that's why a lot of women get to experience them.

Probably not the same for top tier women.

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The top tier men are going through a new woman every week or two, so that's why a lot of women get to experience them.

Probably not the same for top tier women.

So in other words, they all get a turn.

[Anonymous]

Women naturally practice hypergamy more than men
Women not only think they deserve the best but they often the best just because yes just because

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:and these men may be dating 4-6 women at a time

Men > 6 feet in height is only 15% of US population. Only half have an IQ above 100 so that reduces the pool to 7% of men. Only 10% of the 7% above average IQ men under the age of 35 have incomes >250K per year. These women are targeting .7% of the US male population under 35 regardless of marital status and are easily sharing the same man with 4-6 other women.

How many of these unmarried unicorns exist in the DMV?

This math isn't exactly right. Taller guys tend to be smarter than average. Smarter guys tend to earn more money. These qualities are correlated, so it's more than 0.7% of the population. Regardless, the answer to the question is women are hypergamous for evolutionary reasons. Men are natural whores, so the few men who have options will take full advantage and cycle through as many women as possible.

If you want an example, read about West Elm Caleb from a few years ago. "Experts" will call it "love bombing" or whatever made up term they prefer, but the truth is the guy just wants to hit it and quit it because the only reason he values these women is scoring.

[Anonymous]

Maybe women lie and men don’t! If these women are only dating top tier guys why haven’t they landed one?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:and these men may be dating 4-6 women at a time

Men > 6 feet in height is only 15% of US population. Only half have an IQ above 100 so that reduces the pool to 7% of men. Only 10% of the 7% above average IQ men under the age of 35 have incomes >250K per year. These women are targeting .7% of the US male population under 35 regardless of marital status and are easily sharing the same man with 4-6 other women.

How many of these unmarried unicorns exist in the DMV?

The journalist in the OP only said she dated guys who are over six feet tall. She didn’t say they had to be smart or make over $250k/yr.


I think a lot of women in their twenties would say that’s three separate great guys. I think I dated those guys.
- The tall, handsome guy. Mine was a marine.
- The super smart guy. Mine was an Italian physicist.
- The guy who makes a lot of money. Mine was an engineer/MBA who had his own company.

I don’t think any of these men had 6 other women on the side. (Well, the marine might have.) They probably weren’t even necessarily that great. I just romanticized them.
I think if you are going to date a lot of “dream girls” as an average guy, you need to try to become someone who is a little less cynical and sees the best in people. And then put yourself out there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:and these men may be dating 4-6 women at a time

Men > 6 feet in height is only 15% of US population. Only half have an IQ above 100 so that reduces the pool to 7% of men. Only 10% of the 7% above average IQ men under the age of 35 have incomes >250K per year. These women are targeting .7% of the US male population under 35 regardless of marital status and are easily sharing the same man with 4-6 other women.

How many of these unmarried unicorns exist in the DMV?

The journalist in the OP only said she dated guys who are over six feet tall. She didn’t say they had to be smart or make over $250k/yr.


I think a lot of women in their twenties would say that’s three separate great guys. I think I dated those guys.
- The tall, handsome guy. Mine was a marine.
- The super smart guy. Mine was an Italian physicist.
- The guy who makes a lot of money. Mine was an engineer/MBA who had his own company.

I don’t think any of these men had 6 other women on the side. (Well, the marine might have.) They probably weren’t even necessarily that great. I just romanticized them.
I think if you are going to date a lot of “dream girls” as an average guy, you need to try to become someone who is a little less cynical and sees the best in people. And then put yourself out there.

In what world is a tall, handsome guy not "that great"? You are proving the OP's point here. Most men don't have a story about dating a beautiful, stacked blonde.

[Anonymous]

When a woman says she is dating a top tier guy is he really top tier though? Women are very protective of their ego. Of she "accidently" date a guy who she thought was top tier but turned out bottom tier she will spin it in such a way that she thought she was actually saying a good tier guy.

At 29, I was making $201k, 6'2, great physique etc. Was I top tier? No I was not because I didn't see myself as such. In fact at that age I avoided dating like the plague because I was focused on building myself. I met my now wife at 31 and we married a year later. I pursued her. She was a receptionist at the dental practice I used to go to. Did she see me as a top tier guy? No she didn't because I took a lot for me to "impress" her

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:and these men may be dating 4-6 women at a time

Men > 6 feet in height is only 15% of US population. Only half have an IQ above 100 so that reduces the pool to 7% of men. Only 10% of the 7% above average IQ men under the age of 35 have incomes >250K per year. These women are targeting .7% of the US male population under 35 regardless of marital status and are easily sharing the same man with 4-6 other women.

How many of these unmarried unicorns exist in the DMV?

The journalist in the OP only said she dated guys who are over six feet tall. She didn’t say they had to be smart or make over $250k/yr.


I think a lot of women in their twenties would say that’s three separate great guys. I think I dated those guys.
- The tall, handsome guy. Mine was a marine.
- The super smart guy. Mine was an Italian physicist.
- The guy who makes a lot of money. Mine was an engineer/MBA who had his own company.

I don’t think any of these men had 6 other women on the side. (Well, the marine might have.) They probably weren’t even necessarily that great. I just romanticized them.
I think if you are going to date a lot of “dream girls” as an average guy, you need to try to become someone who is a little less cynical and sees the best in people. And then put yourself out there.

In what world is a tall, handsome guy not "that great"? You are proving the OP's point here. Most men don't have a story about dating a beautiful, stacked blonde.

Well, he wasn’t that smart and he wasn’t that nice. He didn’t go to college and enlisted in the marines right out of high school

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:and these men may be dating 4-6 women at a time

Men > 6 feet in height is only 15% of US population. Only half have an IQ above 100 so that reduces the pool to 7% of men. Only 10% of the 7% above average IQ men under the age of 35 have incomes >250K per year. These women are targeting .7% of the US male population under 35 regardless of marital status and are easily sharing the same man with 4-6 other women.

How many of these unmarried unicorns exist in the DMV?

The journalist in the OP only said she dated guys who are over six feet tall. She didn’t say they had to be smart or make over $250k/yr.


I think a lot of women in their twenties would say that’s three separate great guys. I think I dated those guys.
- The tall, handsome guy. Mine was a marine.
- The super smart guy. Mine was an Italian physicist.
- The guy who makes a lot of money. Mine was an engineer/MBA who had his own company.

I don’t think any of these men had 6 other women on the side. (Well, the marine might have.) They probably weren’t even necessarily that great. I just romanticized them.
I think if you are going to date a lot of “dream girls” as an average guy, you need to try to become someone who is a little less cynical and sees the best in people. And then put yourself out there.

In what world is a tall, handsome guy not "that great"? You are proving the OP's point here. Most men don't have a story about dating a beautiful, stacked blonde.

He could be a dumb, mean jerk. That’s how. Or just dull as door knob.

[Anonymous]

To answer OP, women lie. Women believe they are the stars of their own movies, and they will claim to have "dated" (really, just slept with) all sorts of other stars.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:While average men don't seem to have nearly as many experiences with their dream girls. For example, a woman in this article lays out how she spent a year only dating men with her superficial dream qualities.

"After a long, toxic relationship with a guy who was a total waste of my time, I decided to have some fun with dating and only go out with dudes who had my dream guy qualities. For an entire year, I only dated guys who were over six feet tall, and while I felt kind of silly a lot of the time, it was also kinda fun."

One reason….wait for it……women have vaginas. That’s it. Next question.

https://www.bolde.com/spent-year-dating-guys-six-feet-heres-like/

I hear this type of thing in real life too. I've heard plenty of women talk about their dating experiences with very handsome men, very tall men, very wealthy men, professional athletes, entertainers or maybe even local celebrities. I never hear average guys talk about the hot woman they went out with over the weekend - presumably because they did not go out with one over the weekend.

Why don't men seem to have dealings with their "dream" women nearly as frequently as women have dealings with their dream men?

[Anonymous]

One reason….wait for it……women have vaginas. That’s it. Next question.