Clothes don't equal sexual orientation. You're so provincial Lauren Bacall must have been one smokin' lesbian. Someone should have told Bogie. |
+1 I also love the trend of girls wearing sneakers with dresses |
If they want a suit, they get a suit. |
Is this still a trend? I'm seeing less of it. |
| Yes, it's trendy at my kids school and the girls look nice and confident in the suits |
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What's the issue did you already purchase a dress she wanted and now she has changed her mind and you're out of the money?
Even if that was the case I still wouldn't insist on the dress I may make her pay for part of the suit or payback for the dress. |
| Of course. It’s her dance. |
+1 Seriously, op. Your job as a parent is to develop an independent person not dress a doll to send places. |
| I agree kids should be comfortable in their own skin. Men’s suit on female body today connotes non-binary/trans, not Lauren Bacall. So I wonder if this question means something more, and wearing the suit is a big step (different from a girls wear dressy pants and a sequined top because she doesn’t like dresses). |
This is your baggage. Maybe based in where you live? If you are live in an unsafe place, by all means guard your girl by sending her to the dance in a dress. The frillier the better, lest someone think they look too masculine. |
Agree. They are adults; let them make their own decisions. |
| Absolutely I would! |
| Why on earth would you ever push a dress on a child who doesn't want it? Disgusting. Let her wear what she is comfortable in. |
| Is the trans? |
Is she trans? |