I'm a parent of a very ADHD kid who can't take stimulant medication. I am a firm believer in natural consequences, but I will say that the idea that a kid with a disability that impacts memory and attention will learn not to have ADHD because of a natural consequence like this is wrong. My kid has learned strategies for getting around the lack of a phone. He's learned to be fine with very cheap phones because that's all he can afford as a replacement. He's learned to be very polite about asking to borrow someone's phone. I have learned to not need tracking software on him. He hasn't learned to not to lose the phone, and I am sure would come home with a yondr bag if he were OP's situation. Of course if they used a shoe holder or a phone locker he'd leave it there too, so those aren't solutions to that problem. |
I predict every family will have at least one in the near future. |
I'm pretty sure the APS policy on this has exceptions for kids with IEPs, which surely a student who is very ADHD has one, yes? |
Set a daily phone alarm for 5 minutes after the final bell to remind your kid to check that their phone is unlocked. Done. |
My kid just did it day 1. He was told there would be an unlocking device on the bus but there wasn’t. |
I have a kid with ADHD too. I will 100% buy this if his school goes to the pouches and tell him to leave it in all of the time. I’m not worried about my kid using the phone during the day and like others, am more concerned with forgetting to unlock it. Right now there aren’t any teachers forcing collecting but if he has to do a shoe holder or similar we will buy a fake phone for the same reason. Those work kids without ADHD doesn’t understand. It’s not about being addicted or not addicted or a phone. My kid doesn’t care that much about the phone. It’s a safety and forgetful issue.
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I'm not saying that my kid would need an exception. I'm saying that the idea that if a kid misses the phone for the weekend he won't forget again is wrong. |
The phone is supposed to be off in the pouch, so it won't alarm. |
Not in HS. The kids put their phones in the pouch at the beginning of the class and take it out when they leave. Next class, repeat. It's simple and it works. |
Have you taught in a school that has them? Or are you guessing? Theft has been a problem at our school. |
that's how all the anti cell phone parents should have handled this, but nooo you all screamed at the school board so now the rest of us have to deal with this pouch crap. my kid walks home so yes they are going to have a phone. |
Because every student going back to their homeroom class at the end of the day - or mid-day if they have to leave early - is logistically ludicrous. |
The pouch stays with the kid. I guess OP thinks their kid won't remember to unlock it when leaving the building with all the other kids who are unlocking their phones. |
I would hope that having a 504 or IEP is not an automatic reprieve from the pouch. Not all students with accommodations need a smart phone to provide those accommodations. "Because Jimmy will forget to unlock the pouch before getting on the bus" is not a sufficient excuse. |
One doesn't have to have ADHD to forget things, you know. So your kid gets a pass because he has ADHD and kids without an IEP don't? Nope. |