Dave Grohl, sooo disappointed (had a baby outside of his marriage)

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Anonymous wrote:So is the issue for you that the mom chose to have the baby or that he was having sex outside of his marriage?

dp Obviously. If I was his wife or daughters it would be a long time before I trusted him again. This half sister is going to be in their lives forever. How painful for everyone.

Dave: What a jerk.

Actually I probably would divorce him effective immediately.

Pretty much and get that cash, too.

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Anonymous wrote:So is the issue for you that the mom chose to have the baby or that he was having sex outside of his marriage?

+1

It's not great but it's not awful. I can think of many stories about celebs that are awful. This ain't one.

I guess unless you’re part of his original family. Since he’s asking for forgiveness, it doesn’t seem like all is well with his wife and children.

Yeah no. If I was the wife. He ruined everything

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have mixed feelings about this. I feel bad for his wife, but I am glad he is acknowledging his new child. I don't think their marriage will survive.

It's hard to deny it if he gets hit with a subpoena for paternity testing

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So is the issue for you that the mom chose to have the baby or that he was having sex outside of his marriage?

dp Obviously. If I was his wife or daughters it would be a long time before I trusted him again. This half sister is going to be in their lives forever. How painful for everyone.

Dave: What a jerk.

Actually I probably would divorce him effective immediately.

This is probably not the first time. The first time there was a baby, but certainly not the first time he slept around.

But why impregnate someone? He's 55 and should've got the snip after his third child was born.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:So is the issue for you that the mom chose to have the baby or that he was having sex outside of his marriage?

That he was having sex outside his marriage. Obviously, he's a rock star, with all the trappings that come with that. And perhaps women who are married to rock stars have different rules about fidelity. I'm only talking about his infidelity from my crush perspective.

I do not think you can ever tell what is going on in someone else marriage. Specially after 20 years.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So is the issue for you that the mom chose to have the baby or that he was having sex outside of his marriage?

dp Obviously. If I was his wife or daughters it would be a long time before I trusted him again. This half sister is going to be in their lives forever. How painful for everyone.

Dave: What a jerk.

Actually I probably would divorce him effective immediately.

He married in 2003 when he was already very rich and very famous. There is probably a prenup keeping her in the marriage

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Jude Law

Are we going to name every famous man who cheated? I mean the list is long and deep

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So is the issue for you that the mom chose to have the baby or that he was having sex outside of his marriage?

dp Obviously. If I was his wife or daughters it would be a long time before I trusted him again. This half sister is going to be in their lives forever. How painful for everyone.

Dave: What a jerk.

Actually I probably would divorce him effective immediately.

This is probably not the first time. The first time there was a baby, but certainly not the first time he slept around.

But why impregnate someone? He's 55 and should've got the snip after his third child was born.

Guess one got past the goalie.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:So is the issue for you that the mom chose to have the baby or that he was having sex outside of his marriage?

That he was having sex outside his marriage. Obviously, he's a rock star, with all the trappings that come with that. And perhaps women who are married to rock stars have different rules about fidelity. I'm only talking about his infidelity from my crush perspective.

I’m shocked he didn’t have a vasectomy or use a condom or both! He is a rock star, he is not clueless. Cheating is bad enough but now there is a reminder of the cheating in his wife’s face for the next 18 years. How could he be so stupid?

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Anonymous wrote:I have mixed feelings about this. I feel bad for his wife, but I am glad he is acknowledging his new child. I don't think their marriage will survive.

It's hard to deny it if he gets hit with a subpoena for paternity testing

He is claiming paternity. Publicly. A guy who does that is not the guy who would make a woman sue him, etc. He will be in this kid's life. That's the only good in this situation.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So is the issue for you that the mom chose to have the baby or that he was having sex outside of his marriage?

dp Obviously. If I was his wife or daughters it would be a long time before I trusted him again. This half sister is going to be in their lives forever. How painful for everyone.

Dave: What a jerk.

Actually I probably would divorce him effective immediately.

He married in 2003 when he was already very rich and very famous. There is probably a prenup keeping her in the marriage

"Keeping her in the marriage?" She isn't his chattel. And pretty sure when he took the vows it said 'forsake all others" so he null and voided the marriage. You can't force someone to stay with you. Obviously he doesn't want to be married to his wife. Otherwise he would have kept his pants on.

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This is pretty bad imo. He cheated and he didn't use protection. The fact that he is disclosing a child raises the question of whether this was a one time thing or if he has been cheating for a while and and he got careless. And no indication that this was part of an arrangement with his wife since he's working to "regain trust."

That he has three daughters who are of an age where they will absolutely see and hear press about this is gross too. What a terrible way to learn that your father has been unfaithful to your mom. Also because his job requires him to travel a ton and puts him in a million situations where the temptation to cheat will be presented is going to make it so hard for them to trust him again.

Yes it's good he's acknowledging the child and intends to be a present father and provide financial support. But also: he has no real choice. If he's the dad and the mom could sue for paternity it would come out if he was trying to get out of it.

This is not about him "being a good guy." This is him trying to get out ahead of some bad PR of the baby's mom goes public with the affair (or ONS or whatever it was) and paternity claim.

[Anonymous]

DG seemed to rise above typical rock star status- he managed to also be good guy dad, husband, friend and son.
Yeah I’m more disappointed than I would be if it were some other big name rocker.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have mixed feelings about this. I feel bad for his wife, but I am glad he is acknowledging his new child. I don't think their marriage will survive.

It's hard to deny it if he gets hit with a subpoena for paternity testing

He is claiming paternity. Publicly. A guy who does that is not the guy who would make a woman sue him, etc. He will be in this kid's life. That's the only good in this situation.

I wonder if they will guilt the kids into being close to the half sister

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have mixed feelings about this. I feel bad for his wife, but I am glad he is acknowledging his new child. I don't think their marriage will survive.

It's hard to deny it if he gets hit with a subpoena for paternity testing

He is claiming paternity. Publicly. A guy who does that is not the guy who would make a woman sue him, etc. He will be in this kid's life. That's the only good in this situation.

I wonder if they will guilt the kids into being close to the half sister

And if they stay married the wife will have to care for the other woman's baby....no thanks