Undocumented? Refusing to show ID

[Anonymous]

Lol maybe she doesn't like you OP

[Anonymous]

I never had problems with undocumented people.
My neighbors gave very good references. I guess I don't need to know where she lives.

It's just a babysitting job...

If it was s nanny then we do a contract, background check with police, sign contract. Easy

Do you know where all your babysitters lives??😂

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was looking for a babysitter on NextDoor and had an unexpected experience, wondering to learn more. I met a woman who seemed like a good fit. We agreed on the rate, start time. But when I asked her for a proof of name, proof of address so that I know who the kids are with, she refused to share this.

I am assuming that she's won't show ID because undocumented, not because she's a child abductor. But - since it is common for folks to hire such workers, how do you trust your kids to go with someone without REALLY knowing their name, address, etc? Is that common practice?

(And no, we won't be hiring her. Taking the rest to care.com, where background checks already done).

I think she doesn't like you lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was looking for a babysitter on NextDoor and had an unexpected experience, wondering to learn more. I met a woman who seemed like a good fit. We agreed on the rate, start time. But when I asked her for a proof of name, proof of address so that I know who the kids are with, she refused to share this.

I am assuming that she's won't show ID because undocumented, not because she's a child abductor. But - since it is common for folks to hire such workers, how do you trust your kids to go with someone without REALLY knowing their name, address, etc? Is that common practice?

(And no, we won't be hiring her. Taking the rest to care.com, where background checks already done).

I think you scared her OP

That's why

[Anonymous]

I think that babysitter didn't like OP at all
I would refuse to show ID too😂😂

[Anonymous]

I had jobs as a babysitter and nobady asked for ID🤣 I'm brown, trilingual

For nanny job they do all that background check, easy.

[Anonymous]

OP

Your very own neighbor could have kidnapped people in the basement

You never know

[Anonymous]

We either hire through an app or we use someone recommended by a friend. I've never asked for an ID.

[Anonymous]

A lot of these babysitters and nannies helps the community, helps moms, dads, families

Many families has nanny share with another family and that's fine. Never judge other families.
Even the expensive nannies can be abusers too. Even centers with cameras do abuse, don't care.

The nanny is happy, the kids are happy and thriving and the families are happy.

Those nannies helps the communities

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was looking for a babysitter on NextDoor and had an unexpected experience, wondering to learn more. I met a woman who seemed like a good fit. We agreed on the rate, start time. But when I asked her for a proof of name, proof of address so that I know who the kids are with, she refused to share this.

I am assuming that she's won't show ID because undocumented, not because she's a child abductor. But - since it is common for folks to hire such workers, how do you trust your kids to go with someone without REALLY knowing their name, address, etc? Is that common practice?

(And no, we won't be hiring her. Taking the rest to care.com, where background checks already done).

You're anonymous OP

And very judgemental.

Anybody can refuse to show ID and not like you.

I see why.

If you don't like it then " Move on " to other websites.

Snorfest

[Anonymous]

Doesn't a background check use address? Or at least proof of ID?

[Anonymous]

Ya'll would leave your children with someone random?

The IRS has stiff penalties for those paying cash for jobs under the table.

[Carol41]

Hello Family!
My name is Carolay Reynolds and I am 42 years old and I’m from Brasil
I am looking for a full time job. I am located in silver spring
I’ll be able to work at North Bethesda, Rockville. Silver Spring or chevy chase
I’m able Monday to friday.

About my work and skills:
•I have experience with children new born up to 16 years of age.
•I currently work taking care of a 2 year old baby but it ends in September.
•I studied Nutrition and Philosophy in Brazil.
•Strong Driver + Valid Maryland Driver's License
•Fully vaccinated
. My native language is Portuguese, Fluency Spanish and have intermediate English.
• I am CPR and First Aid certified.
•I like arts and reading
•I like to exercise and sports activities.
•Ease of creativity and crafts.
•I love animals in general
•I can give you host family referrals.
. I have a 7 years old daughter.

I consider myself an independent, responsible, honest, calm, patient, affectionate, organized and committed to work person. I hope you give me an opportunity.
Let me know if you're interested and I'll be happy to answer your questions. ☺️
Feel free to contact me at 240-449-7278 for references and interviews. [e-mail]

[Anonymous]

You're supposed to fill out employment paperwork by law unless you're under the table, so showing an ID is not optional. Guarantee she's in the country without a valid work visa, i.e. an au pair who overstayed, or otherwise.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The name the woman told me is so common, may as well have said Jane Smith. Should I be worried that a very unsavory character now knows my home address? (Half joking) that she works for the mafia and pretends to be a nanny to get access to people's homes, or is it more likely that she's just insists on anonymous/under the table work? And people actually let total strangers care for their children?

It's probably something less sexy, like she has a DUI