| Women want men to provide their real names to make it easier for women to scour the internet for every last scrap of information about men like the NSA hunting a terrorist. |
I am a woman who uses a fake name. Even just my first name, which is common amongst my age group, plus my career (very niche) will show up first or second in a google search. I tell them pretty early on, after I decided they are not creeps. |
they often do |
| Doesn’t bother me. I think most people use fake names on apps. Adds a layer of privacy until you are ready to meet. |