Is this tacky for a teen athlete? Swimmer displaying every trophy, medal, photo, etc. at a party

[Anonymous]

Participation trophy generation.

[Anonymous]

Why is this person graduating in August?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Was this stuff just on display or were you forced to listen to a whole presentation on all of it? If the former, not particularly tacky, if the latter then yeah, that's a bit over the top.

They had a photo presentation thing on loop plus tables and boards plural of all this stuff on display.

A few weeks ago we were at a similar party for a young lady headed to swim at a division 1 university on full scholarship and she didn't have anywhere near the display. The contrast was interesting.

That is way over the top ridiculous. You should have described this in your first post.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why is this person graduating in August?

They dum

[Anonymous]

No. It’s not tacky to show off the accomplishments of the graduate. Celebrating their accomplishments was the literal purpose of the party.

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Anonymous wrote:We attended a high school graduation party last weekend. The young lady is an above average but certainly not a great swimmer, yet if you looked at the immense display, you'd think she was over in Paris competing in the Olympics. It is that easy to rack up awards and pageantry if you enter enough tournaments and teams or something? Seemed very odd and tacky, to us.

Why do you care?

I was surprised a teen not that great at a sport can seemingly buy that many awards. And then to display it all for guests like you're Katie Ledecky was a bit over the top, to me.

“Buy that many awards”. You sound like a truly miserable person OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We attended a high school graduation party last weekend. The young lady is an above average but certainly not a great swimmer, yet if you looked at the immense display, you'd think she was over in Paris competing in the Olympics. It is that easy to rack up awards and pageantry if you enter enough tournaments and teams or something? Seemed very odd and tacky, to us.

Why do you care?

I was surprised a teen not that great at a sport can seemingly buy that many awards. And then to display it all for guests like you're Katie Ledecky was a bit over the top, to me.

“Buy that many awards”. You sound like a truly miserable person OP.

Ok we’ve found our answer over and over again

[Anonymous]

Like the moms who post report cards or GPAs on facebook. Read the room.

[Anonymous]

I think it's fine, but it's okay for you to think it's tacky. You seem bothered, which I don't really understand. There are plenty of things I see and think to myself, "That's tacky," but I won't continue to harp on it or think about it later unless it's something that actually affects me. Some random teen's birthday party would not fall into that category.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why is this person graduating in August?

She said the party was in August; she didn't say the kid graduated in August.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Was this stuff just on display or were you forced to listen to a whole presentation on all of it? If the former, not particularly tacky, if the latter then yeah, that's a bit over the top.

They had a photo presentation thing on loop plus tables and boards plural of all this stuff on display.

A few weeks ago we were at a similar party for a young lady headed to swim at a division 1 university on full scholarship and she didn't have anywhere near the display. The contrast was interesting.

A graduation party is celebrating something that is completed. Why would a kid who plans to continue competitive swimming do the same thing?

[Anonymous]

Not sure but it’s definitely tacky for an adult to refer to a teen as “not great” at something and imply that they bought their awards.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not sure but it’s definitely tacky for an adult to refer to a teen as “not great” at something and imply that they bought their awards.

Some sporty families brag to families whose kids don't play the same sport because they expect you not to know any better.

[Anonymous]

I might give a chuckle at having a photo presentation on loop but I would go as far as calling it tacky.

Now if they just had display case for their kids trophies, and always had them stored in those cases, I wouldn’t give it a second thought; I don’t care how choose to decorate their home.

[Anonymous]

Maybe it was the parents and they are the ones into it. Maybe the kid doesn’t want it and thinks it is tacky but doesn’t care that much either way. My aunt and uncle saved every single trophy and medal for my three cousins and put it in their living room. They are STILL in their living room. We are all adults in our our mid to late 40s now. It’s always been a big joke in the family that the house was and still is like that.