That's a lot of whining. None of this is the customer's problem. You should take it up with your employer, or better yet, find a different line of employment if you hate this system so much. Imagine the day where wait staff walk off the job because of too low wages. Businesses will be forced to pay appropriately. Then we can kill off this stupid tipping culture for good. Your anger is misplaced. Again, none of the issues above are the customers responsibility. Do you worry about whether or not the garage owner where you take your car to be repaired is giving all of his mechanics health insurance, a 401k, and a liveable wage? No, I bet you don't because it isn't your problem as a customer to worry about. You pay the prices the mechanic asks for, that is it. You're just a hypocrite asking for customers to fill in for your wages while you yourself wouldn't do the same for so many other service jobs they you patronize in the economy. It makes zero sense. |
| I do not mind paying 20% for service in restaurants. It seems normal to me and fine. I do mind tips for everything else a lot. |
Dumb. I can go to countries like Japan or Thailand and get 1000x better service than 99% of places in the USA. Guess what? Zero tips. Somehow virtually every other country in the world has figured out how to have tons of restaurants, an even bigger eating out culture than the US, affordable prices, and zero tipping. The fact that you equate tipping to better service just shows how little you've traveled the world and how brainwashed you are for the more stupid aspects of American culture that's completely backwards compared to the rest of the world. |
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Unless you are tipping in cash 20 percent is peanuts compared to the past.
For example when I went to college a lot of the girls busted their butt at a fancy restaurant near school as waitresses. They were fancy clothes, hair done, make up, spotless and restaurant checked. A few guts were waiters in tuxedos also showered, shaved and clothes immaculate. They got there early for shifts, stayed till last customer done. But neck then all tips were 20 percent CASH. 100 dollar bill you skip waitress $20 cash. Today people put tip on credit card. Most restaurants take the credit card processing fee out of tip, then there is SS, Medicare, UI, disability insurance, Fed and state taxes. Some also splits the tip bartenders, buss boys etc. The waitress is taking a 50 percent haircut in tip. Plus the restaurant does not pay till paycheck and if restaurant goes under well poof money gone. It is not as profitable to waitress as it was back 40 years ago. First people are cheaper and tips are not cash. My father worked a job with tips. His better customers tipped 20 percent on card then also gave cash. For instance he drove a guy from DC to NYC in a blizzard in his limo as guy has big meeting and airport shut. Of course guy tipped 20 percent in corporate card but also tipped 20 percent cash. My dad got stuck in NYC a few so parked car, got hot lunch then headed out. The stupid tip on card does not give him cash to spend. His company only paid once a month and payroll taxes. |
No, because all those people making a LIVING wage. Restaurant workers, like waiters, do not. |
Lololololll. You are complaining 20% tips are peanuts essentially because waiters have to how pay taxes and are no longer getting paid under the table with cash receipts they can hide from the IRS? Congrats on the the stupidest post I've ever read on DCUM. |
| I'll still tip 20% but will have to order less expensive meals. |
This. $10 an hour is nothing. |
Ok, so why is a living wage the responsibility of the customer? How in the hell would a customer even know if wait staff were earning livable wages? Really terrible logic you have. |
Well, if you want to hand out charity to make yourself feel better, by all means. That doesn't mean customers should be expected to keep shelling out 20% tips as rising minimum wages get phased in and cause menu price hikes. You do you. |
But tipping is done AFTER the service is performed. So that's not going to happen. Tipping is something we do out of the kindness of our hearts. It changes nothing if I tip 0 or 50% other than make me feel holier than thou. |
+1,000 |
What an intelligent, well thought out argument. Right up there with "I know you are, but what am I?". |
I didn't force you to take a job as a server. Wages are between the employer and employee. If the server isn't making a living wage at their job, then they should work someplace where they can make a living wage. I pay the menu prices. As the tipped wage increases, I expect to be able to reduce the amount of tip I leave. Someday I would hope that the tipped wage concept is a thing of the past. Just charge me the appropriate amount. I don't tip the guy at Home Depot for taking me through the store to find the part I'm looking for---it's his job. A servers job is to take your order and bring you your food. |
I have no idea, because I have no idea how many tables servers serve per hour because I'm not the manager. This is why I only go to restaurants where the cost is such that I can tip highly and not notice the impact on my finances. I don't get pleasure from fussing over tips and menu prices. It ruins the meal, so I'd rather not go. I eat well enough at home. |