So nobody, then? Got it |
| Just say you can't afford it because you live outside your means. No need to be spiteful about you only being able to afford rec. There is nothing wrong with rec. |
The distinction is not between volunteers and professional soccer coaches. It's between volunteers and people getting paid to do a job. Clubs are businesses and need to find workers to pay to coach their teams. Sometimes there are "real" coaches with real experience and talent who apply for these jobs. Sometimes it's just someone trying to make a living. Just like some volunteers can be very qualified while some can just be doing it because there was a need. In general, the more you are paying the higher chance there is to get a qualified coach. Of course it doesn't always work out perfectly but again, the market and capitalism does its thing. |
This is why I'm turning more socialist as I get older.
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Wow. Project much? Every significant discussion on player development in the United States includes a lot of fretting about the cost of club soccer and the misapplication of resources. That includes people who pay for travel soccer or are paid to run travel soccer. It ain't just people who make less than you do. |
Or any club that enters its third team in EDP and plays EDP Cup in New Jersey. |
Yes we have to think of all the mediocre fullbacks who are now coaching and talking about development. |
So what? Who cares what other nations are doing? We have our way and it has nothign to do with going pro. It is about fun. And I agree, all but the top couple of levels should not be on cross country trips. But so what? |
If this were unique to soccer then maybe there would be a point to making the comparison. But this is how youth sports and youth activities in general work in this country. Volleyball, hockey, basketball, cheer, lacrosse, baseball, even things like robotics and chess. They all have national travel leagues and tournaments that cost a lot of money. There is no going back to "how it was" in the old days. |
Why? Because our kids enjoy it, and we can afford it. Not sure why you think club soccer can’t be a fun and productive activity for kids and parents, though if there is anyone from our area traveling to Topeka to watch their third team kid play soccer, I would feel bad for that parent and kid. I’ve never witnessed any such thing happening, though. Re the bolded, my older kid is playing college at a top 20 school on a 2/3 athletic scholarship, and my younger made varsity as a freshman. We know many kids in the same boat. That can’t likely happen without club soccer in this country. Do I think it’s a terrible system that benefits the wealthy while funneling money to undeserving people like the leadership of ECNL? Yes, and as others have stated, the system isn’t set up to maximize the development of kids or coaches. But it’s the system we have and none of its flaws mean we and others aren’t going to participate if our kids want to play at a level more serious than rec. |
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you pay not for soccer you pay for life lessons . Already at u8 your kids will be introduced to the dirties politics that can be.
At the age 18 they are ready to work in US Senate if survived. |
Yeah. Always felt the same way. I played travel soccer and so did all of my siblings and it certainly wasn't something my parents would have been able to afford in this day and age. Nothing like today's expenses. That said, my kids really loved it. I absolutely despised the politics of it. Saw such sh*t behavior of some coaches, HS, admin., parents, you name it. We had to move around to get the kids properly developed, avoid excessive travel young and find 'good' people. Now my kid is headed off to play in college next year, something we never were gunning for. Self-driven. I checked out of the process when he started driving himself at 16 and looking for opportunities himself. I was beaten down by the system and it was so painful watching what my kid went through by some real *ssholes over the years. Rolled off his back because he loved the game and believed in himself. So thrilled to see how it ended up working out for him which seemed impossible 1 year ago. |
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The pay to play model sucks.
At least in Montgomery County you have 2 options for travel lite: MSI Classic and Sam Select Neither costs as much as travel, and all games ate in Montgomery County, with better competition than Rec. And, many MSI Classic teams are parent coached, and, are competitive |
I realize you might not know this. Is the closest to "travel-lite" Loudoun Challenge for Loudoun? |
Did the volunteer parent grow up in a soccer culture and played for decades at high club and International levels? Now has coaching certifications and licenses and continues to attend coaching seminars? |