Would you stay in the house?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It seems to me that if the shoe was on the other foot, a husband would agree to go to the hotel. No way would he force you to stay at home if you were uncomfortable or freaked out about bugs.

As for the weaning, c'mon, you waited until 2 years to do it. A few nights isn't going to matter.

This!!!

No, not this. (BTW "this"er why not articulate your own thoughts?)

Tell your DH he is welcome to go but you fail to see the need. Then explain to him that since there are no circumstances that require evacuation, since everything is under control, you don't see the need to leave. If you stop weaning in the middle things could go off track for a while. Trust me.

Can I use that line "no circumstances that require...." when my wife wants me to do something that I don't feel like doing? I think that's great!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not sure why you posted here if you were just going to do whatever you wanted, anyway.

IMO, you should let DH go to a hotel if he wants. Perhaps the heat affects the two of you differently.

OP Here. Well then maybe I should have titled this *Am I Being Unreasonable?* because that's what I was interested in. Even so, I still appreciated everyone's replies. When he first brought it up DH asked me if I wanted to get a hotel. When I said no, he got upset. Subsequent discussions he told me if I wanted to stay then fine, but he was going to get a room. I told him that I didn't see the need for it when we had a section of the house that still had A/C, but if that's what he wanted, I was fine with it. HE chose to stay. *shrugs* I do feel bad because he does get hotter than me, but the way he described the condition of the house it sounded completely unlivable, which it wasn't. It's muggier than I like, but ceiling fans make it very tolerable. It also helps that it really hasn't been that hot.

It's funny, he's from the south and I'm from the north. You'd think I'd be the one dying in this heat.

I think that our fight was more about my lack of sleep and his stress of dealing with our contractor: We're doing renovations, and the 4 feet of water in our basement was because of their screw up. Their insurance is replacing everything and paying for the clean up, but still. This was his parents house, and a lot of the things we lost are things that had been in has family for time out of mind.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It seems to me that if the shoe was on the other foot, a husband would agree to go to the hotel. No way would he force you to stay at home if you were uncomfortable or freaked out about bugs.

As for the weaning, c'mon, you waited until 2 years to do it. A few nights isn't going to matter.

This!!!

No, not this. (BTW "this"er why not articulate your own thoughts?)

Tell your DH he is welcome to go but you fail to see the need. Then explain to him that since there are no circumstances that require evacuation, since everything is under control, you don't see the need to leave. If you stop weaning in the middle things could go off track for a while. Trust me.

Can I use that line "no circumstances that require...." when my wife wants me to do something that I don't feel like doing? I think that's great!

OP again. Only if you tell her that we told you to say that1