Going back to my old cult for a wedding - survival tips?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You almost had me until the weight gain and multi- millionaire part. I guess trolling beats substance abuse. Whatever floats your boat. You should turn this into a comedic screenplay. It has potential.

This was entertaining. Best troll post ever.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You almost had me until the weight gain and multi- millionaire part. I guess trolling beats substance abuse. Whatever floats your boat. You should turn this into a comedic screenplay. It has potential.

This was entertaining. Best troll post ever.

Best ever? Bold claim.

Definitely best in a long time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don't go! It's a trap!

This thread is a trap, written by a troll.

Don’t fall for it.

[Anonymous]

À better troll would be to drop details subtly in your replies. You kind of did with the MOH thing, but it would have been better to be vague in the initial post about the Did stuff and let that unfold on the comments. Naming your characters was also too much.

[Anonymous]

OP you can afford the $$$ injectable stuff so go for it. Doubling your weight is not healthy and you have to know that.

If this is a troll- I don't get it? Maybe pick up a hobby or something that takes you away from creating online drama. There are better ways to live your life.

[Anonymous]

Not a troll. Why do you all say I am?!?

I will be talking to my therapist about this on Friday, but I found out on Saturday night and waiting a full week for a therapy appointment when I’m so distraught is a long time!

And to the person who asked, yes, I have a psychiatrist. She did diagnose me with DID, but she thinks it’s a good thing that my host part is always out instead of letting other personalities take over completely.

I found that the greatest healing comes at random moments; driving to work, sitting through my kid’s piano lessons.

I’ve had a lot of healing from childhood trauma, but I think I have trauma from Walt’s church/cult and I’m not ready to be with those people again…but I want to be supportive of my best friend.

[Anonymous]

Glad to hear you found help outside of the organization.

It sounds like a difficult predicament.

[Anonymous]

Assuming this is real--
You go because you've move beyond this toxic influence. Be supportive of the bride. Stick close to your spouse. Minimize your contact with the cult leaders. Leave as soon as you politely can. Have an escape plan or a refuge where you can go if it's too overwhelming.
Don't worry about how you look. These people no longer have an influence over your life and this probably will be the last time you see most of them, so who cares what they think.

[Anonymous]

But does ELIZABETH know you gained weight? She may not want you for MOH, just saying.

[Anonymous]

Just go, they probably won't recognize you and you steer clear of them.

[Anonymous]

Wait you accept books for your kids from a cult member?

No OP this is not a wedding one goes to.

[Anonymous]

Why does your friend stay in the cult? I question whether it's healthy for you to return to any former cult. If you tell Elizabeth no, will she still be your friend? If she is a good friend she will understand.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why does your friend stay in the cult? I question whether it's healthy for you to return to any former cult. If you tell Elizabeth no, will she still be your friend? If she is a good friend she will understand.

She stays in because she thinks God has called her there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You almost had me until the weight gain and multi- millionaire part. I guess trolling beats substance abuse. Whatever floats your boat. You should turn this into a comedic screenplay. It has potential.

This.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You all suck. I need advice, but instead you made fun of me. Shame on you!!

You got sucked into a cult and you are scolding others?