Wife is hurtful

[Anonymous]

So, instead of listening to her concerns you post here complaining? Man up.

[Anonymous]

You could try the 180

https://beingabeautifulmess.wordpress.com/the-180/

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In how cold she is toward me. We've gone through rough times together but I'm trying to be open and work on things. But she's just cold and distant and doesn't seem to want a relationship any longer and from the conversations we've had she has said as much. I do love her. Any recommendations on what to do?

So you messed up, but expect her to get over it immediately when you decide to start "working on it".

My recommendation is to give her time to process the rough times and let her be while she's at it.

You're assuming that OP caused the rough times.

Men are always the root cause for rough times.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In how cold she is toward me. We've gone through rough times together but I'm trying to be open and work on things. But she's just cold and distant and doesn't seem to want a relationship any longer and from the conversations we've had she has said as much. I do love her. Any recommendations on what to do?

Tell if she doesn't want a relationship then you want a divorce.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In how cold she is toward me. We've gone through rough times together but I'm trying to be open and work on things. But she's just cold and distant and doesn't seem to want a relationship any longer and from the conversations we've had she has said as much. I do love her. Any recommendations on what to do?

So you messed up, but expect her to get over it immediately when you decide to start "working on it".

My recommendation is to give her time to process the rough times and let her be while she's at it.

You're assuming that OP caused the rough times.

Men are always the root cause for rough times.

Hahaha. The only rought times my DW gets is between the sheets.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So, instead of listening to her concerns you post here complaining? Man up.

What makes it seem like OP is not listening to her concerns?

[Anonymous]

Are you my dh? I could see him saying that about me. I have tried, tried, tried. I love the idea of him, the who he was a million years ago, but who is now disappoints me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are you my dh? I could see him saying that about me. I have tried, tried, tried. I love the idea of him, the who he was a million years ago, but who is now disappoints me.

Are you me? I also thought this could be my DH and you could be me!

[Anonymous]

Accept that your marriage is over, and figure out how to protect yourself going forward (in every way).