Safe vent - I don’t like my husband because he’s not man enough

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’ve been depressed and lonely recently because I’m coming up on the 10th anniversary of my divorce and I’m sad to admit I’ve not had a romantic relationship since. However, this post reminded me that I was a “dud” husband which is why I got divorced in the first place if I am being honest with myself. So in a way I guess I and any woman I might have encounter(ed) are better off for my so I should count my blessings.

Odds that a guy wrote this: 1%

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’ve been depressed and lonely recently because I’m coming up on the 10th anniversary of my divorce and I’m sad to admit I’ve not had a romantic relationship since. However, this post reminded me that I was a “dud” husband which is why I got divorced in the first place if I am being honest with myself. So in a way I guess I and any woman I might have encounter(ed) are better off for my so I should count my blessings.

Odds that a guy wrote this: 1%

I think a guy could have wrote this. Except for the bedroom initiation, I could be a "dud" husband - I married up and know that my DW could do much better than me. I'm lucky to have her. If she wised up and divorced me, I probably would be a loner basement dweller. I count my blessings.

[Anonymous]

If counseling doesn’t work, and you feel that divorce is a financial disaster, just build a life for yourself that doesn’t revolve around him. Lean into hobbies, your church, find new friends, etc. Be polite, but basically just organize your own life the way you want it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He never initiates sex. I have not had sex in over five years.

He can’t fix anything. He is physically weak.

I don’t think he loves me. He’s just too tired to divorce me.

I don’t think I love him. I am too poor to divorce him.

Sounds like you have no respect for him so why would he try to have sex with you? Also have you tried to approach him for sex? Perhaps he has low T from aging. Encourage a doctors visit but none of this will help if you have no respect for the man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He never initiates sex. I have not had sex in over five years.

He can’t fix anything. He is physically weak.

I don’t think he loves me. He’s just too tired to divorce me.

I don’t think I love him. I am too poor to divorce him.

What attracted you to him in the first place?
You knew almost all of it before marriage.

[Anonymous]

He knows what you think of him, the contempt is clear on your face, your actions and words even if you don’t come right out and tell him how you really feel.
I pray that he is blowing your savings on girlfriend experience hookers and cocaine and he giggles himself to sleep every night

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He sounds like a feminist.

This.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He never initiates sex. I have not had sex in over five years.

He can’t fix anything. He is physically weak.

I don’t think he loves me. He’s just too tired to divorce me.

I don’t think I love him. I am too poor to divorce him.

For you and others whose husbands are like this, why did you marry him? If he’s physically weak, can fix anything, doesn’t have ambition, is lazy……were there any warning signs?

I am seriously curious as well. Looking back, what were the warning signs?

[Anonymous]

If you are only with a man for money, what does that make you?

(And think about the fact that you have put a price tag on the rest of your life—money vs happiness).

I hope that parents raising women to be dependent read this sad post.

[Anonymous]

He never initiates sex. I have not had sex in over five years. He can’t fix anything. He is physically weak.

I don’t think he loves me. He’s just too tired to divorce me. I don’t think I love him. I am too poor to divorce him.

Most likely, you are fugly. He is likely constantly tired because he cannot stand coming home to you.

His major weakness is not kicking your @$$ out on the Beltway.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He knows what you think of him, the contempt is clear on your face, your actions and words even if you don’t come right out and tell him how you really feel.
I pray that he is blowing your savings on girlfriend experience hookers and cocaine and he giggles himself to sleep every night

PP over here telling on himself

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He knows what you think of him, the contempt is clear on your face, your actions and words even if you don’t come right out and tell him how you really feel.
I pray that he is blowing your savings on girlfriend experience hookers and cocaine and he giggles himself to sleep every night

PP over here telling on himself

An 8 ball, some company and a suite at the Pendry would be perfect for this rainy night!