DD jealous of DS

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This didn’t come out of no where.

Your son is the golden child and this is what happens when you have one.

You are wrong. We don't believe in favoring children, but if anything, we've favored the middle (DD) because we know middle children frequently get lost in the shuffle.

[Anonymous]

It's anxiety about her Brother leaving!! She's soiling the nest so, him leaving, won't be so hard to face.

I do not think, at 15, she is far enough along in high school to be as aware as you think she is re: the landscape of college admission.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This didn’t come out of no where.

Your son is the golden child and this is what happens when you have one.

You are wrong. We don't believe in favoring children, but if anything, we've favored the middle (DD) because we know middle children frequently get lost in the shuffle.

Assuming this is OP, your first post came across unkindly towards your DD.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My take, she's anticipating the loss of her brother in her daily life, not his college decision per se. You are contributing to her unwell feelings by comparing his outcome to her yet-to-be-determined outcome.

NP. That was my first thought as well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'd tell her to shut it, nobody's interested in her obnoxious comments and if she has nothing nice to say she can go to her room until she can be civil.

This is the answer. She can keep her snide comments to herself

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This didn’t come out of no where.

Your son is the golden child and this is what happens when you have one.

You are wrong. We don't believe in favoring children, but if anything, we've favored the middle (DD) because we know middle children frequently get lost in the shuffle.

Assuming this is OP, your first post came across unkindly towards your DD.

How so? I love her, but her comments are snide.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's anxiety about her Brother leaving!! She's soiling the nest so, him leaving, won't be so hard to face.

I do not think, at 15, she is far enough along in high school to be as aware as you think she is re: the landscape of college admission.

NP you're clueless about teenagers in HS