Spin-off: couples where one spouse is bi or had a bi experience

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have a friend who is married and has been married for about 15 years now. She is a woman and he is a man. The female and I have been friends since college. She made a very public Facebook post last year on her birthday about how she was bisexual and how empowered it felt to admit that. But she wasn’t leaving her marriage-she just wanted everyone to know she was bi. All I could think about was who cares? At this point when you are married and staying married what difference does it actually make? I think if you are married and it’s not effecting your relationship it seems irrelevant if someone is bi/had a past bi experience.

Exactly. Unlike the other thread where the bi DH was pushing for threesomes with strange men.

[Anonymous]

Wife. I love my husband, but I’m more gay than straight and wouldn’t date another man if I somehow ended up dating again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The thread “doubts and insecurities opening the bedroom” got me thinking:


If you are married / engaged / in a LTR, and one of you had same-sex experience in the past, was the bi spouse:

- the woman or

- the man?

Is there a link to the original thread? Don't see it?