Hiring help at a resort

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There's a reason that resorts have childcare available, people use it. That means it's perfectly normal.

You were completely out of line in your judginess with your friend's approach to vacations. That wasn't OK and deserves a real apology if you want to maintain the friendship.

A lot of the people here tisking about using childcare services fofegt that there's a huge difference between traveling with young kids and school age kids.

There is a huge difference. Really young kids love hanging out with their parents. I say embrace those years rather than hiring help while on vacation.

No judgement if you want a meal or an activity with just spouse, but I’ve seen instances where kids spend more time with nanny than with parents. Sad IMHO.

Lol. This attitude is precisely what pissed OP's soon to be ex-friend. It's quite condescending and incredibly insulting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There's a reason that resorts have childcare available, people use it. That means it's perfectly normal.

You were completely out of line in your judginess with your friend's approach to vacations. That wasn't OK and deserves a real apology if you want to maintain the friendship.

A lot of the people here tisking about using childcare services fofegt that there's a huge difference between traveling with young kids and school age kids.

There is a huge difference. Really young kids love hanging out with their parents. I say embrace those years rather than hiring help while on vacation.

No judgement if you want a meal or an activity with just spouse, but I’ve seen instances where kids spend more time with nanny than with parents. Sad IMHO.

Lol. This attitude is precisely what pissed OP's soon to be ex-friend. It's quite condescending and incredibly insulting.

I’m pp. This is just my opinion. I will say my opinion on an anonymous message board. I would never say this, or a lot of things, to somebody directly. I think this applies to a lot of things on DCUM.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There's a reason that resorts have childcare available, people use it. That means it's perfectly normal.

You were completely out of line in your judginess with your friend's approach to vacations. That wasn't OK and deserves a real apology if you want to maintain the friendship.

A lot of the people here tisking about using childcare services fofegt that there's a huge difference between traveling with young kids and school age kids.

There is a huge difference. Really young kids love hanging out with their parents. I say embrace those years rather than hiring help while on vacation.

No judgement if you want a meal or an activity with just spouse, but I’ve seen instances where kids spend more time with nanny than with parents. Sad IMHO.

Lol. This attitude is precisely what pissed OP's soon to be ex-friend. It's quite condescending and incredibly insulting.

I’m pp. This is just my opinion. I will say my opinion on an anonymous message board. I would never say this, or a lot of things, to somebody directly. I think this applies to a lot of things on DCUM.

Nah, you said it to make yourself feel superior. Sad IMHO

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There's a reason that resorts have childcare available, people use it. That means it's perfectly normal.

You were completely out of line in your judginess with your friend's approach to vacations. That wasn't OK and deserves a real apology if you want to maintain the friendship.

A lot of the people here tisking about using childcare services fofegt that there's a huge difference between traveling with young kids and school age kids.

There is a huge difference. Really young kids love hanging out with their parents. I say embrace those years rather than hiring help while on vacation.

No judgement if you want a meal or an activity with just spouse, but I’ve seen instances where kids spend more time with nanny than with parents. Sad IMHO.

Lol. This attitude is precisely what pissed OP's soon to be ex-friend. It's quite condescending and incredibly insulting.

I’m pp. This is just my opinion. I will say my opinion on an anonymous message board. I would never say this, or a lot of things, to somebody directly. I think this applies to a lot of things on DCUM.

Nah, you said it to make yourself feel superior. Sad IMHO

No, I am not superior- far from it, in fact.