Np here. I moved from DC to the Bay Area. Sadly for us a 1200 sq foot 3 bedroom is $2 million or more (or it needs major work like a new foundation). We rent, but there are many places where you could spend a LOT and still not necessarily be “living large.” Prices are better in DC area, but plenty of expensive housing there too. |
How is going above a $1.3 million house risky on a $1 million income? I don’t make anywhere near that, but it would be the equivalent of me saying, “Gee, spending more than $325K on a house might be risky on my $250K income.” |
I’d need to have $750k in HHI to feel comfortable with that. And it would depend on other expenses. If we were also doing private school for 2 kids, sleepaway camp, and expensive sports, I’d need more. |
$1M. We just bought a 3.5 M house, mortgage will be about 1.5M, and we make $1.5M. Feel totally comfortable with it. |
what a stupid answer for some people a 1.5mm mortgage is peanuts |
Not the person who wrote "never" but I +1 that sentiment. It's not a stupid answer to me. I feel like people who can afford a house that expensive shouldn't have to take on a jumbo mortgage. It just screams overextended to me. We have $1M HHI. Our home is paid off but the most we ever owed was around $300k. |
Most people who are buying $2M homes right now have that mortgage. Most of them I know probably make $500k. Source: propertyIQ. It’s totally irresponsible IMO and what’s driving up property values but it’s their life. |
You cannot answer these questions in a vacuum. In a vacuum, the maximum reasonable DTI is 40%, so a 1.5m mortgage would require a minimum HHI of 280k.
The issue with the vacuum, is that with an HHI of 280k, the 1.3m for a down payment probably came from family money. There is a big difference between a 1.5m mortgage on 280k when you are being gifted 140k a year and the grandparents have taken care of the college funds and 280k with no family help. |
The above is the real answer. |
Mostly it’s the privite school tuition and the au pair. On top of that, there’s travel, and of course savings because we won’t be making $1m forever. In hindsight, I wish we bought a cheaper house and saved more aggressively. |
This always comes down to math. In the environment now, sure put more down, but why in a million years would I not lever up at the rates we have 2.75%. The payment is less than 7% of my income. |
$500k |
Never, ever, ever. But I'm not someone who values a large home, nor would I ever want to live in say NYC or similar where this is common. It doesn't fit with my value set. I'm more of a "live in a small, modest house, family of 4 with 1 car, shop at Aldi person". Always will be even though financially I don't need to. I think that much money on a house is foolish. |