| ^ rough estimate - I’m probably spending about 10-12k this year on volleyball with the travel. No planes, all car travel but multiple away tournaments. |
| Lacrosse. We probably spend around $20k/year with the travel. |
I ask because if x sport is way above our comfort level to spend, I don’t want to let him play now when he’s not serious yet. Or I’d like to at least nudge him toward other options |
No, you can spend $1000 on one baseball bat and a fielding glove. But the bat will last you a year (though you may need a warranty replacement in that year) and the glove, once you are in an adult glove (which is where you are spending $200-$600 or more, can last many, many years, though might need relacing occasionally. Batting gloves cost anywhere between $10 and $150--my kids use ~ $30 batting gloves and we get the (very cheap -- maybe $3 or $4) Dick's warranty to be able to replace them as needed for a year. |
| Basketball AAU-- $5500 (includes travel, private coaching) |
| About $30k for travel hockey. |
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I don’t think any sport could touch horses. Maybe skiing? Maybe sailing if you bought a boat?
There are a shocking number of people spending >$100k/year for their children to ride. And a significant number spending >$1m. |
| Wow sailing on cheap by comparison, about $1800/year for fall and spring team, regatta fees and a dry suit plus other gear |
| I'm guessing $15-18k hockey, including camps, lessons, hotels, etc. travel, third team. |
I know it takes some skill but is it really a sport when the horse is doing all the jumping and hard work? |
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We live in CO now. Kid 1- 10k for ski team including hotel costs and 6k for club soccer- she’s second team so little/few overnights. She participates loosely in a year round track program for conditioning that runs about 3k. Kid 2- 6k for excel gymnastics including meets plus track (3k).
Kid 1 is 11 and kid 2 is 9. Typing this out always feels insane. But they are happy and tired. |
Not if you don’t want it to be! It’s totally fine. You don’t need to fight this fight. |
| Tavel Hockey $5k with goalie discount for team. Doesn’t include travel expenses. Goalie equipment $2k (some of it used). private lessons and camp around $3500. Yeah so $15-$20k for an 11 year old who loves the sport, but definitely won’t play in college. Hahahaha |
How can you know this? He is still young. |
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Individual sports are significantly more expensive than group sports and travel costs add up as well.
Our son plays squash competitively and it’s easily $20K per year when you include private coaching and travel costs. I know of tennis parents who spend upwards of $40K/ year/ child. I don’t think soccer or basketball are nearly as expensive. |