Which grade does bullying begin?

[Anonymous]

I think around 4-5. Mostly 5th. A little in 3rd possibly depending on the kid.

[Anonymous]

The really bullies can also be the moms. Don't be fooled! That starts early and goes into MS.

[Anonymous]

As a teacher I’ve seen it at virtually every grade/age, even preschool. But typically it gets to be more of a problem around 4th-5th.

[Anonymous]

For both of my kids, it was 4th grade. That's when the mean girls/queen bees started building cliques and bossing other girls around and the boys started playing rougher on the playground.

[Anonymous]

Birth to grave

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:2 years old with some kids, LOL.

In all seriousness, I would say it starts in 3rd.

I've sadly seen it in 1st....I guess it depends on the group of kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The really bullies can also be the moms. Don't be fooled! That starts early and goes into MS.

Yup it's really sad.

[Anonymous]

Kindergarten.
In third grade, I noticed some kids took their parents’ bullying example. This was a school in McLean.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Kindergarten.
In third grade, I noticed some kids took their parents’ bullying example. This was a school in McLean.

^ What school?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Kindergarten.
In third grade, I noticed some kids took their parents’ bullying example. This was a school in McLean.

^ What school?

MANY schools.

[Anonymous]

my daughter suffered significant bullying in 2nd grade. the other one experienced mild bullying in kindergarten.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:2 years old with some kids, LOL.

In all seriousness, I would say it starts in 3rd.

+1 yeah I think 2nd/3rd grade is when we notice things went from oh they’re just kids who haven’t been socialized well to oh look this is who the mean kids are.

I’ve noticed some mean kids (mostly boys) in my DS’s 2nd grade class. I’m not sure if I would call them bullies because to me, that implies a degree of … social engineering, I guess? In and out-group behavior? And these kids, there are two of them, both boys, are just mean loners. They’re not friends with each other either. I’m sure there’s some “you’re not our friend because you don’t have xyz item” style bullying amongst the girls, especially the older ES girls, but I have a boy so I’m not as in tuned to them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Kindergarten.
In third grade, I noticed some kids took their parents’ bullying example. This was a school in McLean.

100% agree that the bullies take cues from their mothers (at least girls). And we're not in McLean.

[Anonymous]

For my son, it started in K.

[Anonymous]

I was attacked a lot in 3rd and 4th grade by boys. Beat up physically multiple times. The relational aggression started in 5th-6th, and hit peak in 7-8.