Am I expecting too much at 4 months?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He’s just not that into you. But he enjoys spending time with you and your sex although he doesn’t love you and is not going to.

IME a man falls faster than a woman. If he doesn’t know at 4 months it’s not going to happen.

+1 Take heed, OP.

This will never be the kind of relationship you want. You deserve better.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m 46 and divorced with 2 kids. I am dating a 35 years old beautiful lady and she is so into me and I honestly kind of feel bad. I like her as well but when you are divorced you don’t see relationships the same anymore. I will eventually love her but it will never be like she is feeling about me. After having gone through divorce I don’t ever see myself being crazy over someone again.

I never understood the appeal for divorced men over 40 with kids. I am 34 and many of my friends are similarly involved with such men and a handful are all in love. Where are the the single and childless men in their 30s??!! I can’t seem to find them.

[Anonymous]

My now DH was never one to express how he really felt about me in words for at least six months or more. But, there were so many things he did, beyond sex, that showed me how much he cared about me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m 46 and divorced with 2 kids. I am dating a 35 years old beautiful lady and she is so into me and I honestly kind of feel bad. I like her as well but when you are divorced you don’t see relationships the same anymore. I will eventually love her but it will never be like she is feeling about me. After having gone through divorce I don’t ever see myself being crazy over someone again.

I never understood the appeal for divorced men over 40 with kids. I am 34 and many of my friends are similarly involved with such men and a handful are all in love. Where are the the single and childless men in their 30s??!! I can’t seem to find them.

They’re conservative and you’re rejecting them ideologically, or you’re too picky physically.

[Anonymous]

Op here. Thank you for all who shared thoughts and/or experiences. It is helpful! I hope you are all enjoying the snow.