There’s an awkwardness with my neighbor every night.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe consider a very sheer curtain - keep it open during the day and close it at night. That might remove some of the awkwardness.

Or window treatments that make it hard to look in but easy to look out - they exist …

Is there a way to put a plant in the window? Or outside of window? On a ledge?

I would not want eye contact. I’d put up a tension rod & some light cafe curtains or sheers

[Anonymous]

I find people who don’t have window coverings of any kind to be weird. Unless the house is in a remote location without neighbors close by.

[Anonymous]

You need some sort of window curtains, even if they are sheer on a tension rod that you can leave open when you aren't doing the dishes. If my bedroom was across the way and I regularly saw a neighbor looking in I would be creeped out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why don’t you hit on her?

I’m a woman and she’s an older woman!

Love does not know age, nor gender.

[Anonymous]

Would you hit it OP

[Anonymous]

You’re fine; your neighbor is perfectly able to pull her blinds if she is so moved. Most of us in similar setups pull bedroom blinds each evening. Personally, I installed a sheer curtain on one of my other windows precisely to avoid any awkward eye contact moments, but that is for my comfort.

You do you.

[Anonymous]

I'd wave politely and move on with my day.

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You need some sort of window curtains, even if they are sheer on a tension rod that you can leave open when you aren't doing the dishes. If my bedroom was across the way and I regularly saw a neighbor looking in I would be creeped out.

+1

[Anonymous]

I mounted a shelf at the halfway point up my window when my view was an a-hole neighbour I felt was waiting to make eye contact every day. Like your neighbour, it was her bedroom and she was the only one with drapes. I could still see movement from time to time but with the herb plants on the shelf I no longer had to make eye contact.

[Anonymous]

Wear a different costume (Clown, witch, police, cowboy, etc) every night. Lady will freak out & either move or board up her window.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why don’t you hit on her?

I’m a woman and she’s an older woman!

And?

Cougars. Sweet.

Cougars want young men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous[b wrote:]You need some sort of window curtains, even if they are sheer on a tension rod that you can leave open when you aren't doing the dishes. If my bedroom was across the way and I regularly saw a neighbor looking in I would be creeped out.

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This. i don't want to look at you either OP! put something up!

[Anonymous]

There's no "awkwardness". that is you OP. She's pulling down her blinds because she doesn't want to see you.

[Anonymous]

You should walk around naked and hook up with someone in front of the window. Then she’ll def put her blinds down.