Stay at Home Girlfriends

[Anonymous]

It doesn’t surprise me. With as weak as guy’s are anymore. They just don’t have what it takes to have a professional well kept intelligent woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It doesn’t surprise me. With as weak as guy’s are anymore. They just don’t have what it takes to have a professional well kept intelligent woman.

Ironic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is all the rage. Anyone have a Stay at Home Girlfriend?

Everyone I know who have anyone stay home, had married, impregnated and saddled them with household responsibilities.

[Anonymous]

* includes both SAHM and SAHD

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In my entire life I have only known one woman who quit her job to prepare for her wedding, and then never went back to work.

My BFF did that, had wedding then move abroad then had a baby and then another and then moved again then some health issues happened so basically just gave up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My neighbor two doors down does. He moved in during his divorce about 18mos ago. New girlfriend was moved in within 6mos or so. She's like 20 years younger, and never leaves the house except occasionally with him. We are pretty sure she doesn't have a job (although I suppose a remote one is possible) and he seems to rely pretty heavily on her for child care. They fight a LOT, and the whole neighborhood talks about it (it's very loud).

With work from home trend you never know.

[Anonymous]

So this generation has gone from living with parents for free when they are grown to finding a partner that will pay the bills. Once the partner gets bored he/she can just dump the one they have and get a new one. Mean time the free loader goes through life never understanding how to earn a living or become independent. Who takes care of them when they have no social security and they are in their 60’s or beyond?

[Anonymous]

Financial dependency is a stupid and gross thing to do intentionally. 🤮

[Anonymous]

Another example of how social media is so toxic (the WSJ article was about how these girls post all over social media about their SAH lives). I admit to feeling threatened by how perfect their lives seem- don't work, just work out, cook and look beautiful and have someone take care of you. It's an illusion though. Both the reality of their lives now and their future. These situations generally don't work out in the long run for women like this for so many reasons, but unfortunately lots of young girls will see this and want to emulate it, because, social media.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So this generation has gone from living with parents for free when they are grown to finding a partner that will pay the bills. Once the partner gets bored he/she can just dump the one they have and get a new one. Mean time the free loader goes through life never understanding how to earn a living or become independent. Who takes care of them when they have no social security and they are in their 60’s or beyond?

I'm guessing all of them are hoping to seamlessly transition into SAHM status. Big risk to this though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have a friend from college who has a stay at home fiancé. She won’t marry him with a prenup and he won’t marry without one. So she stays home and he pays all the bills. I think she’s a moron because she’s going to leave the relationship with nothing when she could at least have positioned herself to leave with something.

A pregnancy solves that issue. She’s probably also a tenant and would be very hard to evict in a lot of cities

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So this generation has gone from living with parents for free when they are grown to finding a partner that will pay the bills. Once the partner gets bored he/she can just dump the one they have and get a new one. Mean time the free loader goes through life never understanding how to earn a living or become independent. Who takes care of them when they have no social security and they are in their 60’s or beyond?

Number one rule to become a SAHM is don’t be a SAH GF. See: cow/milk.
I'm guessing all of them are hoping to seamlessly transition into SAHM status. Big risk to this though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm working on getting a stay at home boyfriends. I cannot stand cooking and cleaning. I have someone in mind.

I can be a stay at home boyfriend. It brings me pleasure to see the look on people’s faces when I create meals in the kitchen. I also clean, do laundry and the kicker, I have income and medical for the rest of my life.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My neighbor two doors down does. He moved in during his divorce about 18mos ago. New girlfriend was moved in within 6mos or so. She's like 20 years younger, and never leaves the house except occasionally with him. We are pretty sure she doesn't have a job (although I suppose a remote one is possible) and he seems to rely pretty heavily on her for child care. They fight a LOT, and the whole neighborhood talks about it (it's very loud).

With work from home trend you never know.

Good point. I assumed someone I know's girlfriend, who moved into his house after a few months of dating, was not employed. Turns out she is, she has a WFH job.

[Anonymous]

What do they do all day? Unless you have a huge home, there's only so much cooking and cleaning a person can do, especially if you don't have kids. I would be bored out of my mind!