Men: studies say 60% cheat. Have you? ( no specifics)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've had sex with women other than my wife but she was always there

If she was just a spectator that was cheating! If she was participating that was not cheating! If she had a lot more fun than you, that is a problem!

[Anonymous]

That has to be a national average. I feel like the men in this area are too boring and tired to cheat that frequently.

[Anonymous]

Guy here. I’ve been married twice. The first time was 9ish year, my current one is 20 years. I haven’t cheated during either relationship. I have had the opportunity but the idea of my wife and some finding out and being disappointed in me kills my interest.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That has to be a national average. I feel like the men in this area are too boring and tired to cheat that frequently.

I think it is the most boring men who are most likely to be dissatisfied with their lives and cheat.

[Anonymous]

20% of statistics are made up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Woman here.Tossing around stats like that is such BS and is done to rile up all the DCum women who hate their husbands. Most people on this are women so why not ask women if they have cheated, ideally using valid data if it exists. FWIW I’ve never cheated and I’ve never had the desire or the need to.

Exactly. My husbands ex cheated, not him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As a married man, have you cheated?

Didn’t read thread.

No, of course not.

I think that 60% is made up. Probably more like 25 if I had to guess. But not me.

[Anonymous]

No, but I’ve had opportunities. The first, crazy enough, was a few months after I got married and I was on a business trip in LA arriving on a Sunday night so I went to get dinner at the hotel bar. A very pretty woman was sitting there and it became very clear she was available. Where the hell was she when I was single! So unfair!

[Anonymous]

I believe it. I am a married woman and I get hit on all the time while on business travel. If your spouse travels regularly, chances are he is hooking up or at least trying.

[Anonymous]

Nope.

[Anonymous]

No, married 15 years. Never even thought about it.

Cheating is a BS excuse for being weak. If you don’t want to be with someone, don’t be with them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I believe it. I am a married woman and I get hit on all the time while on business travel. If your spouse travels regularly, chances are he is hooking up or at least trying.

This is such BS. You get hit on all the time because you put yourself in positions to be hit on and the horn dogs who are out there know where to find you. I’ve done business travel for years and yes, I’ve met horn dogs, but most of the men are decent.

[Anonymous]

Cheat once when I was young and dating. Since being married no I've never cheated.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I believe it. I am a married woman and I get hit on all the time while on business travel. If your spouse travels regularly, chances are he is hooking up or at least trying.

This is such BS. You get hit on all the time because you put yourself in positions to be hit on and the horn dogs who are out there know where to find you. I’ve done business travel for years and yes, I’ve met horn dogs, but most of the men are decent.

I travel weekly in an industry that a lot of guys travel as well (finance). So many of my male colleagues cheat. It really is about opportunity for most of them. I have no doubt that most of them love their wives and families but they don’t expect anyone to find out outside of the workplace

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
I travel weekly in an industry that a lot of guys travel as well (finance). So many of my male colleagues cheat. It really is about opportunity for most of them. I have no doubt that most of them love their wives and families but they don’t expect anyone to find out outside of the workplace

I believe it. One friend group I'm in is entrepreneurs, all who are doing very well financially. Nearly all of them do. I've even been to a party hosted by one of them where he brought in a group of hired women, and anyone could just grab one and take her upstairs for some fun.