Suspicious phone calls - can’t call back, temporarily unavailable

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Home is a total disaster, on the verge of divorce, definitely another party involved. I was just curious about what this newest number was. Not sure why any of it matter anymore?

Right, I see. I'm sorry, OP. If you're in a state with no-fault divorce, proving an affair won't end up affecting your divorce settlement anyway. I hope you can get out with minimal trauma.

[Anonymous]

Someone is calling you from a computer, it is a spoofed phone number. It’s not a real phone number if you can’t call it back.

[Anonymous]

So my ex and his married whore would do some internet type thing which would show up as an unknown caller and different # each time. They also would use and delete Skype calling.

But on the actual phone bill there was zero trace of calls placed or texts.

[Anonymous]

Could be he's a spy. Sure it's Canada and not frostbite falls Minnesota? Have you asked moose and squirrel about it? Odds are his affair partners name is Natasha

[Anonymous]

Agreed. Your DH is probably a spy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Home is a total disaster, on the verge of divorce, definitely another party involved. I was just curious about what this newest number was. Not sure why any of it matter anymore?

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Are you the OP who posted about her husband having a fling with someone in Canada while on a work trip?

[Anonymous]

I wish DH was a spy instead of screwing someone else, but unfortunately it’s the other way around.

We’ve been married a long time and we have kids in the house and this isn’t going to end well for any of us

[Anonymous]

Have you confronted him? Does he know you know? Are you in talks about divorce? Just kick him out already.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP again -to clarify, I’m about 99% sure it’s something sketchy based on other things going on at home. I’m just sort of curious as to whether this is some sort of known way of inconspicuously having phone calls with your affair partner.

Did you call from his phone or your phone? Call it from a conference room at work, maybe she preemptively blocked you?

[Anonymous]

I called from a random office phone. So not preemptively blocked…

Haven’t confronted him yet

I know that i need to divorce, but it hard to pull the trigger after all these years

[Anonymous]

Hold up. I don't know all the details here, but as someone with experience with some of this stuff, I'd say what you need to do is first try to gather more evidence. if you are accessing his phone, try texting that number, check his texts also, Try calling from his phone to see who answers. if you can access his email, check there too. The reason I advocate for this, sneaky though it is, is because most cheaters will deny deny deny unless you have hard evidence, and they simply are CAUGHT. The hardest part is restraining yourself from going bananas on him until you have CALMLY gathered all available evidence. Confronting too soon leads to the cheater quickly deleting all evidence and then you have nothing to work from. Be slow, patient, and methodical. It could take months, but losing your cool too soon could ruin the whole thing. Once you have your evidence, then you can figure out your next move. Definitely suggest talking it through with a therapist. In some cases marriages can still go on, even with cheating, it's not always the end of the marriage.