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[quote=Anonymous]Hold up. I don't know all the details here, but as someone with experience with some of this stuff, I'd say what you need to do is first try to gather more evidence. if you are accessing his phone, try texting that number, check his texts also, Try calling from his phone to see who answers. if you can access his email, check there too. The reason I advocate for this, sneaky though it is, is because most cheaters will deny deny deny unless you have hard evidence, and they simply are CAUGHT. The hardest part is restraining yourself from going bananas on him until you have CALMLY gathered all available evidence. Confronting too soon leads to the cheater quickly deleting all evidence and then you have nothing to work from. Be slow, patient, and methodical.  It could take months, but losing your cool too soon could ruin the whole thing. Once you have your evidence, then you can figure out your next move. Definitely suggest talking it through with a therapist. In some cases marriages can still go on, even with cheating, it's not always the end of the marriage. [/quote]

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